In the past, the main reason why rural men could not marry a daughter-in-law was because of their poor families, but now the rural areas are generally wealthy, and every family lives in small western-style houses and lives a relatively decent life. Surprisingly, however, many rural men are still single, unable to find female friends and marry daughters-in-law. Although their family conditions are superior, it may be difficult to establish a relationship with girls due to differences in life Xi habits and concepts, or lack of social skills. This phenomenon is worth pondering, probably because of the fast-paced life and competitive pressure brought by modern society, which has led to difficulties in emotional communication and marital relationships.
In rural areas, after marrying a daughter-in-law, many men have also become "young grandmothers" in the family. Compared to the young daughters-in-law of the past, they live a life of support at home, without doing housework and without hard work. This situation is not an isolated case, but a universal phenomenon. These "young grandmothers" enjoy the luxury of enjoying the pampering of their families and do not need to bear too many responsibilities and obligations, which is indeed a great change from the daughters-in-law in the past. Behind this phenomenon may be the change of traditional concepts and the adjustment of interpersonal relationships brought about by social changes.
In the past, rural people were very industrious, and in order to support their families, they had a lot of farm work and household chores to deal with every day. However, with the transformation of rural production methods and the popularization of agricultural mechanization, farmers' jobs have become much easier. They no longer need to do heavy physical work and have more time for leisure and recreation. Therefore, rural people nowadays are more and more fond of getting together to play cards, play chess, chat, sing and dance, and enjoy a casual lifestyle. While this change reflects social progress, it also brings new problems, such as unreasonable use of time and excessive recreational activities.
Most people in rural areas choose to work in the cities instead of farming at home. As a result, houses in many rural areas are often left vacant. Although the houses have been renovated into small bungalows or cottages, they are uninhabited most of the time. As a result, the countryside looks like there are a lot of beautiful new houses, but in reality few people live in them, becoming an idle waste of resources. This also reflects the empty-nesting population in rural areas and the imbalance in rural economic development.
At present, there are elderly people with children and daughters in the rural areas, and their children have all gone to the cities to work, and they themselves have to work in the rural areas, so their lives are very difficult. Although the lonely elderly are lonely, they enjoy the state's five-guarantee policy, can get monthly subsidies from the state, and live a carefree life. They don't need to plow the fields and farm the land, they have free time and live a relaxed and happy life. Therefore, ordinary old people envy the life of lonely old people and feel that they live better than themselves. This phenomenon highlights the problem of rural pension and the transformation of family relations.
In recent years, after a young person in a rural area gets married, the slightest conflict can lead to divorce. In modern society, there is a lot of pressure and change, and conflicts and frictions between husband and wife are inevitable. The marriage crisis in rural areas is even more serious, due to the conflict between traditional concepts and modern lifestyles, as well as the entanglement of economic interests, which leads to an increase in the divorce rate. This may require strengthening education and guidance on marital relationships in rural areas, and improving mutual understanding and communication skills between couples.
To sum up, the countryside has undergone earth-shaking changes, but there have also been some strange phenomena. Behind these phenomena are the reasons for social development and transformation, which require us to think deeply and solve. Sustainable development and social stability in rural areas can be promoted by further strengthening rural education, social services, and the building of family relations.