Needless to say, feelings can prove their sincerity.
Sometimes, it is the behavior that exists in the details of getting along that can better explain whether love really exists.
Whether a man really loves a woman is not based on what he says, but by what he does.
Three aspects can be seen whether a man is distressed by a woman. These actions are worth a thousand words, and they can't fool people at all.
Will understand the difficulties of women.
Give her understanding and tolerance.
To love someone is to tolerate her shortcomings and understand her difficulties.
As the saying goes: Just like the beautiful room in "Settle Down", Xu Wenchang didn't understand why he didn't care about anyone's feelings at first, and just wanted to make money wholeheartedly. It wasn't until her mother appeared that she realized that behind this weak woman was the pain of her family.
The people of the Origin family, like vampires, put pressure on her to earn money and left her breathless.
After learning the truth, Xu Wenchang was even more distressed, and accompanied her back to her hometown to see her grandfather, which was her strong backing and gave her enough security.
A man who truly loves a woman, after she is depressed or understands her predicament, understands her situation, gives tolerance, and is willing to take the time to redeem her grief.
Take the initiative to care about women's lives.
Take care of her daily life.
The Book of Songs says: When a man meets a woman he really likes, he will not hesitate to give him tenderness and thoughtfulness, and is willing to express his care and love for the woman from the little things in real life.
is like Dr. Su in "The Wind Blows Banxia", seeing that Banxia was desperate for his health for his career, he took the initiative to go to Xu Banxia's house to help Xu Banxia do housework, and cooked carefully for Xu Banxia, so as not to be always busy with work and ignore his Xu Banxia's poor care for his stomach.
Dr. Su's thoughtfulness touched Xu Banxia and felt that a person was really good to herself.
A man who really loves a woman will pay attention to her every day, take the initiative to ask her if she eats and sleeps well, whether she has any troubles in life, whether she has any work, and tries his best to help her beloved woman relieve her worries.
Supporting women at critical moments.
Be her strong backing.
When a woman needs a shoulder the most, whether a man really loves a woman or not is reflected in this moment. The ancients said, "If you are wide, you will get a minister, if you are thin, you will lose the people." ”
It doesn't matter if a man really loves you or not, support at a critical moment trumps all vows.
Like a colleague of mine, her husband doesn't show much affection during the workday. He looks aloof, slurred and doesn't know the meaning of life.
But when a colleague needed help, his husband always rushed to the front.
I used to work on a project with my colleagues, but the project failed and the colleagues were sad. For the first time, her husband took the initiative to pick up my colleagues from work and invited them to eat a special Sichuan dish.
Not to mention some trivial things in daily life, the lack of language does not make colleagues feel the lack of love, and the thoughtfulness shown in action makes colleagues always moved by this rare married life.