If it weren't for the fact that the cheating man and the original partner had a poor relationship that caused him to be hungry, it was the means of the mistress, especially the means to deal with men.
They can make cheating men ignore her appearance and be attracted to her charisma.
This kind of mistress is the most terrible mistress, because compared with cheating men, cheating men have long-term feelings for mistresses and have real feelings, and it is more difficult for wives to solve them.
So if you encounter a junior who looks average and has no advantages, don't underestimate the enemy, don't be careless and lose Jingzhou!
Seeing the advantages of the mistress, according to the situation of the mistress, quickly separating the mistress is what the wives should do.
Before, an original partner and Jiaxin said that the junior she met was not outstanding in appearance, but she was the type that could attract cheating men.
The original partner was a dance teacher, and her appearance was junior high school, and her husband had pursued her for a long time, and the family conditions of the two were similar, and her husband had a good appearance, and he also opened his own company.
From love to marriage, her husband has always taken great care of her, and she said that if her husband was not good enough for her, she would not have chosen her husband among many suitors.
But she didn't expect that all kinds of good men who used to be obedient to her would cheat after getting married.
The original partner said that she was pregnant in the second year of marriage, and she regained her figure less than half a year after giving birth.
She thought that this would not affect the relationship between husband and wife, and would not affect the relationship between the two people.
As a result, her husband cheated on a mistress during her pregnancy.
When the original partner first suspected that her husband was cheating, the junior targets she locked were all young and beautiful types.
She stared suspiciously at her husband's side, and even the outstanding-looking girls around herself, and found that the other half was cheating, and it was difficult for the wives to calm down and analyze who the mistress was.
Instead, he went back to think wildly, and guessed wildly according to stereotypical impressions, not only could he not find Xiao San, but he might also offend some people around him.
Therefore, wives must not have a stereotype of the mistress, and they must also speak with evidence.
If you suspect that your other half is cheating, the most important thing you should do is not to question the cheating man, or to suspect who the mistress is.
Instead, you should not startle the snake first, and see what evidence there is that can point to Xiao San.
After this original partner went around and found the wrong person, he locked the junior.
The third is a financial officer in her old public company.
He was not married in his thirties, and his appearance and family conditions were not as good as his original match.
Compared with the impactful and bright beauty of the original match, Xiao San belongs to the small jasper, and there are some ordinary.
But the cheating man had feelings for the mistress, and after the extramarital affair showdown, the cheating man said such a thing to the original partner, at the beginning, he was indeed because his wife was pregnant, and his physical needs were not met, so he went to find Miss twice, but he felt that Miss was not clean, so he wanted to cheat.
Because this mistress has shown a good impression of the cheating man before, the cheating man didn't look down on the cheating man before, and the cheating man didn't look down on the mistress as his wife, but he was still willing to only be a third-party cheating man.
So why do many women who have no wife have an advantage be able to become a third party to a cheating man.
It's because the cheating man himself is the third party he picks, not the wife.
Mistresses don't need to be better than their wives, they just need to have a little advantage and be able to make the cheating man like it very much.
For example, this mistress, she belongs to the true feelings that although the conditions are not very good, and her appearance is not as good as the original match, but she is very affectionate to the cheating man, no matter what her purpose is, the cheating man feels that the mistress has no true feelings for her.
Maybe his feelings for Xiao San are not pure, but it doesn't affect him that Xiao San's true feelings are precious.
So wives don't find that the mistress is inferior to you in all aspects, and think that this extramarital affair must be easy to separate
The cheating man doesn't love the mistress, and the mistress is not as good as his wife, so as long as the wife finds out the cheating man to make trouble
As long as the wives threaten with divorce, the cheating man will definitely abandon the mistress in the end and choose marriage.
The reality is that many cheating men don't like this way, they don't like the mistress enough, but it doesn't prevent them from enjoying the feeling brought by the mistress.
As long as the mistress can maintain it and give the cheating man what he wants, the affair will be able to continue.
The wives refused to divorce, but just tried to find a way to solve the extramarital affair, and the cheating man broke off with the mistress for a short time.
When the wife wants to make the cheating man pay, the cheating man finds that he can't drag it out before he really ends the affair.
So the mistress, who is inferior to his wife in all aspects, relies on what attracts cheating men?
On the one hand, the juniors understand cheating men, know what they like, and attract cheating men.
On the other hand, the cheating man himself is a person who can't resist **.
The mistress just has what the cheating man wants, and the cheating man will be attracted to the mistress.
Many men love their wives, but it doesn't prevent him from cheating on the mistress, because they love him more.
So don't expect too much from a cheating man, so you won't be too miserable.
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I'm Jiaxin, a marriage defender who focuses on the separation of third parties.