Recently, Dong Yuhui's speech has been on the hot search again. This time, he stood on the podium of Tsinghua University. 
From the silent cultivation of the three-foot podium, to the diligence in the live broadcast room after the great changes in the industry, and then to the classroom standing in Tsinghua University, word by word, neither humble nor arrogant, he is so shining, I don't know how many passers-by under the starlight have been moved. This speech also made everyone understand that his popularity was definitely not accidental. No one can succeed casually, and behind all the amazing sentient beings' falling and generous, there must be diligence and struggle day and night. Tell your child that you can be good if you are willing to work hard. 
Never forgetGrowing painsCCTV's "Youth Class" once invited Dong Yuhui to give a speech at the Communication University of China. From the mountains to the troughs, from confusion to firmness, Dong Yuhui has a high-energy output throughout the whole process, and the excitement continues. Today, we also listen to his growth story. The world is full of fragrant flowers in April, and the peach blossoms in the mountain temple are in full bloom. Different places have different landscapes, and so is life. I'm 30 years old this year, so I may have some age differences. But when looking back,I hope that some of the life stories I have shared today can be of some help to youIf it doesn't help, I hope you can take away a little happiness. My university was in a foreign Chinese university in Xi'an, and there were 32 people in our class at that time, only two male students, and another classmate took leave all year round because of poor health. During the lesson, the teacher looked around and saw me hiding in the corner. Then the teacher will ask, guess which male student I am going to invite to answer the question?You pay attention to the teacher's wording, which is "which male student do you want to invite to answer the question", and then I look around the classroom and find that another male student has taken a leave of absence. SoI nervously stood up and nervously answered the teacher's English questions, and I stumbled because of the nervousness, and then the more nervous I was, the more I stumbled, and the more I wanted to speak quickly. So the teacher comforted me one day: "Dong Yuhui, you can speak Mandarin, you try not to speak dialects." ”Actually, I was answering questions in English, so my initial college experience was very painful. I was born in a rural family, and maybe ordinary children from cities or small towns can better understand my feelings, that is, you have to be strong since you were a child, and you can't accept that you can't even answer the teacher's questions in class, and you are very anxious and nervous. Every time the teacher asked a question, I was very shy because the whole class laughed as soon as I finished speaking. The teacher said: "Dong Yuhui, I can clearly hear from your English that your hometown is **." It's humbling, it's unbearable, and the outside world will change you to a great extent. Never forget the many pains you had growing up. Many years later, when I was a teacher, I used to teach students that pain is right, anxiety is also right, the nature of pain is your dissatisfaction with the status quo, and then the nature of anxiety is that you grow too slowly. People who are often unhappy are more likely to make great achievements. We are all still on the road, but please believe that unhappy poets will write poems that have been recited for thousands of years, and unhappy writers will write works that have been praised by everyone. "If, for a moment or two, you always feel like you're depressed, you have to imply that you're going to be a talent. "That's how I lied to myself. I was practicing English every day, I practiced and practiced, and sometimes I was frustrated, why did I say that this English is so dialectal, and until now, my Mandarin is not very standard. But I later found out that it doesn't affect because English all over the world has its accent. You go to Australia, and the people there talk like kangaroos;When you go to the UK, the north and the south are different, the east and west are different, and everyone has a different accent. Everyone speaks in their own way, and the point is to express your thoughts clearly, then fluently and accurately. I figured it out, and I gradually became more and more comfortable, and then I got more and more into the state. It's actually quite interesting to think about it now. Because I found that with practice, I was able to express myself completely and smoothly. 
A person's concentrationDecide how far he can go in the endA person's concentration ultimately determines how far he goes, and it has little to do with being smart. And especially smart people, always calculate the input-output ratio, and once they find that the efficiency is very low, they immediately withdraw. Cleverness is often the enemy of intelligence. Remember this saying, concentration is very important, don't think too much. After I had been practicing English for a long time, the teacher asked me to answer questions in a speaking class. (Again, I asked everyone to guess which male classmate he invited to answer the question, and I looked around, and the brother took another leave of absence, but at that opportunity, the teacher began to remember me.) After I answered, the teacher said, I didn't expect your speaking to be pretty good. I suddenly felt that my efforts were being seen, even though it was too small to be mentioned. Remember, a lot of small changes start at that moment. Even in the curve of life, you don't know which point played a turning point. But when you press that point hard, your experience will tell you that you were right. After class, the teacher said, "I have a classmate who came to Xi'an from abroad, but I don't have time, can you help me be a tour guide and introduce him to the beautiful scenery of Xi'an?""I said of course. That day, I took this guest to the scenic spots in Xi'an to check in, like the Big Wild Goose Pagoda, the Terracotta Warriors, and the Huaqing Pond. At that time, I was very excited, and I took him to the Big Wild Goose Pagoda to see the bronze statue of Tang Seng. Tang Seng was not sent out by the emperor back then, he secretly ran out with a huge mission and religious enthusiasm, and it was very likely that he would not come back. The moment he returned, I imagined the excitement and excitement in his heart when he looked at Chang'an City from afar. I imagine what kind of heroism he felt in his heart when he sat in the Temple of Mercy and Grace in his later years, when the leaves of the ginkgo tree fell, the morning bell and the dusk drums, and he was there to give lectures to his disciples and grandchildrenI remember that night, when I looked at the bronze statue of Tang Seng, I spontaneously said to the foreigner, do you want to understand such a sense of mission?Then I thought of Russell, and I said:"three passions, *but overwhelmingly strong, h**e governed my life: the longing for love, the search for knowledge, and unbearable pity for the suffering of mankind."This is from a talk by Russell called "What I Live For", which means: the thirst for knowledge, the pursuit of love, and the unquenchable compassion for human suffering, these three simple but strong passions have dominated my life. Why do we read?In fact, the sages gave very accurate answers, the desire for love, the pursuit of knowledge, and the unstoppable compassion for human suffering. When I said these words, I was so excited that I danced and spoke incoherently. Then I looked back and found the foreign guest, who also had tears on his face, and he was very excited. It was the first time that a young man from a rural background, who had always had low self-esteem, tried to find himself in college and explore the future direction of his life, and for the first time won external recognition with his performance. That's a turning point), because since then, it's out of control. The foreign guest sent a text message to our school teacher, praising me for my poetic language and very full of passion. Then all my friends came to Xi'an to contact me. I went to the Terracotta 17 times that year. 
Your tomorrowIt's up to you todaySomeone once asked, "If you could turn back time, what would you choose to do?"Some people said: "I want to go back to junior high school, tell myself to study hard, get into a good school, and now I won't be like this."Someone said: "I want to go back to my freshman year of high school, not to fall in love, not to rebel, not to skip school, to be kind to my parents, if I worked hard enough at that time, I won't regret it today." However, time cannot be turned back, regret has no effect, do not wait until time is gone, opportunities are gone, then remember to work hard, by then it is already too late. But kid, you're different, you're in the time period that many people want to go back to the most.
You have a lot of time to study hard, you have too many opportunities to change your destiny, and your life has just begun. There are countless roads in front of you in the future, and whichever path you choose, what kind of life you choose. 
Everyone has to sufferIt's just the difference between morning and nightChild, is it hard to study?Of course, there is no doubt about it. In the early morning of winter, you reluctantly leave the warm bed, get up early to go to school and read early, and your little face is blown red by the cold wind;Countless late nights, you sit under the desk lamp, just thinking that you can make progress in the next exam.
Sometimes you are so tired that you cry and complain, "Why is it so hard to study?".Why do I have to study hard?”
Yes, who wouldn't want to live a comfortable life if they could live an easy life.
But life is one torment after another, survive it, and be outstanding;If you can't get through it, you're out. You think that studying is hard, but your parents are also hard at work, everyone in society is not idle, everyone is gritting their teeth for their own happiness and the happiness of their families.
Everyone has to go through hardship. Today you suffer a little more in your studies, and in the future you will suffer less in life;If you sweat a little more for your studies today, you will be able to shed a little less tears in your life in the future. Children, please let go of your impetuousness, let go of your laziness, let go of your three-minute heat, empty your brain that you can't help but **, let go of your eyes that are easily attracted by anything, calm down and do what you should do. Learning is the fairest, and how much you pay for it, it will give you what kind of grades. is also a cold window to study hard, how can you be willing to bow to the wind;When you hear the word teenager, you should be repelled with mediocrity!
Child, you are young, you should have a lot of energy. Anyone has a chance to be that dark horse, why can't that person be you?Child, I hope you have the courage to be the sun more than the stars, even if you can't do it, but you still have to work in that direction. The easier it is to slack off and be questioned, the harder you have to try, because when you feel pain, you are actually going uphill. Don't be discouraged if you don't get good grades, don't be discouraged when you are questioned or ridiculed, you have to quietly rise to the top, and then amaze everyone, and the life of turning the tables against the wind is the happiest!
Maintain 6 major living habits and 6 major study habits
Youth is full of hope, and youth is full of strength. In addition to providing children with knowledge and skills, our education must also equip them with qualities that will last a lifetime. As parents, we can help our children establish good living habits and study habits, so that they can better adapt to society and lay a solid foundation for their future development.
6 major lifestyle habits
Keep exercising
Plato once said: "Movement is the way for human beings to get out of mediocrity and become strong and break through themselves." ”
So no matter how busy you are, parents should not forget to leave half an hour of sweating time for their children every day.
If you have a sunny holiday, encourage your child to put down his phone and leave the room, even if it's a simple run, believing that the breeze will soothe his soul.
Do household chores
For most children, they are usually accustomed to the care of their elders, and it is easy to develop bad habits of not liking hands-on.
Therefore, it is advisable for children to stick to hands-on household chores every day.
Organize and organize
For children, if they can develop the habit of organizing and storing from an early age, they can make their work more orderly and organized, which will be of great help to their future studies and lives.
Parents should cultivate children's tidying habits and let them tidy up their desks, toys, etc.
Go to bed early and wake up early
Developing the habit of going to bed early and waking up early requires persistence day after dayAnd getting into the habit of sleeping lazy only takes a few days of indulgence.
Eat a healthy diet
For growing children, healthy eating habits are very important, meals are essential, and snacks are minimal.
In addition, parents should also pay attention to the fact that their children's diet should be nutritious and balanced, and children should not be picky eaters, let alone overeat.
Personal hygiene
Every parent should cultivate good personal hygiene habits in their children from an early age.
Teach children to pay attention to personal hygiene, do not rub their eyes with dirty hands, cut their nails frequently, change their clothes frequently, and wash their hands before meals and after using the toilet.
6 study habits
Preview habits
Preview is a good study habit and an important part of learning, and doing a good job of preview can improve learning efficiency and make children's learning easier and more solid.
Review habits
Review is always the most important thing in learning, and systematic review can run through the knowledge learned, so as to form a knowledge system.
Parents should guide their children to review, deepen their understanding of old knowledge, and form good review habits.
Plan habits
As the old saying goes: "Everything is foreseen, and everything that is not prepared is wasted." "In whatever you do, you can succeed if you are prepared in advance, and you will fail if you are not prepared.
Parents should guide their children to learn to make a study plan, specific to the study of each subject, and develop good planning habits.
Reading habits
A famous writer once said: "Making children fall in love with reading will surely become the most cost-effective educational investment in your life." ”
Parents should help their children develop the habit of reading through their own words and deeds, as well as the guidance of their children's interests, so that children can truly dig out endless treasures from books.
Morning reading habits
Morning reading can help children discover the beauty of words, especially exercising children's morning reading during holidays, which can help improve children's reading ability.
Parents should guide their children to read and recite articles in the morning to become proficient in reading.
Calculation habits
In primary school mathematics, the most basic ability is calculation. If a child's numeracy skills are not good, it is difficult to learn mathematics well.
Parents must help their children develop good calculation habits, supervise their children to do problems seriously, and teach their children to be good at drafting.