A parent's love for their children is selfless and pure, but when this love is overly pampered, it can have a negative impact on the child's development. This kind of excessive pampering has triggered the hot stalk of "my family Zihan" on the Internet, although netizens have said that it is "too ridiculous", but teachers can't help but feel worried. This article will focus on the overprotection of parents, the cultivation of students' negative Xi, and the plight of teachers, aiming to arouse parents' thinking about the importance of correctly educating their children.
Although there is nothing wrong with parents' love for their children, excessive pampering may develop bad Xi in children. Parents are overprotective of their children because they value their development and want them to grow up safely and happily. However, setbacks and difficulties in life are inevitable, and parents who interfere too much in their children's lives and Xi not only fail to really help them grow, but may also make them become too dependent and incompetent. For example, "Zihan's mother" questioned the teacher why Zihan was bitten by mosquitoes and other children were not, and this vexatious behavior caused ridicule from netizens. Netizens ridiculed one after another, expressing their disagreement with this overprotection through the hot stalk of "My Family Zihan".
Parents pay too much attention to their children's big and small things, which also makes teachers feel a lot of pressure. The job of a kindergarten teacher is not to act as a babysitter, they have their own duties and tasks. Unnecessary questioning and arguing from parents will only make teachers tired of coping and not really paying attention to the needs of their children. Parents' overprotection of their children not only affects the work of teachers, but also makes children lose their ability to think independently and solve problems.
Teachers need to maintain a stable mood and a friendly attitude when facing parents' questions. They need to make it clear to parents that everything about their child at school is being taken care of and that teachers have their own tasks and work processes. Recording teaching activities in the parent group in real time for emergencies is a manifestation of teachers' traces, which can effectively resolve parents' worries and doubts.
In addition, teachers need to establish a good personal image and maintain a sense of dignity with their students. This can establish an authoritative position as a teacher in the hearts of parents, and not be seen as a free babysitter. When teachers interact with parents, they need to maintain a moderate level of affinity and professionalism, and give reasonable explanations with facts and evidence, rather than using personal preferences as a criterion. Strengthening communication and trust between teachers and students can reduce parents' excessive interference with teachers.
Parents are right to be concerned about their children's development, but overprotection is not a good way for children to grow. Parents should reflect on their own behavior, try to address the root causes of the problem, and learn Xi more advanced educational methods to nurture their children. Children should be encouraged to think independently and solve problems, so that they can face difficulties and setbacks in life, and grow and learn Xi from them.
A parent's love for their children is selfless and pure, but when this love is overly pampered, it can have a negative impact on the child's development. Overprotection and attention to children's behavior invisibly deprives them of independent thinking and problem-solving skills, and also brings trouble to teachers' work. Therefore, parents should reflect on their own behavior and change the wrong way of education, so that their children can face the difficulties and challenges in life positively, so as to grow up healthily.
In these times of challenges and opportunities, the right approach to education is crucial. It is hoped that every family will be able to pay attention to the growth of their children and respect their independence and personality development, so as to raise a new generation that is healthier, more confident and responsible. At the same time, teachers should also maintain professionalism and patience, establish a good cooperative relationship with parents, and work together for the growth and future of their children. Only through the joint efforts of parents and teachers can every child receive the best education and become a pillar of society.