For a long time, the traditional way of elderly care in China is to raise children to prevent old age. Therefore, in the consciousness of many people, when they are old, they must rely on their children to support their old age.
However, in today's society, young people are under great pressure to live and work, and they often have no time to take care of themselves, let alone take care of their parents and provide for their parents.
Aware of this, many people no longer put the hope of providing for the elderly on their children, and more often, they still have to rely on themselves.
Therefore, when people are old and their children are unreliable, they should keep the following three things to avoid a bleak evening.
1. Keep your money bag
"When I was younger, I thought money was the most important thing in the world, but now that I'm older, I know it's true," Wilde said. ”
There is also a saying on the Internet: Money, although it is not omnipotent, but no money is absolutely impossible.
In short, money is extremely important for everyone, and the same is true for the elderly who have lost their ability to work.
When people reach their old age, they must have enough pension money in their hands, which is the best of their old age and the guarantee of their later life.
In life, in order to make their children's lives better, many people do not hesitate to take out their savings to their children as early as possible, thinking that they will help their children live better, and their children will also do their best to provide for themselves. However, the reality is often chilling, and some children who take their parents' money, instead of being grateful to their parents, feel that their parents are a drag and ignore their parents.
Just like in the TV series "Settle Home", there is a very chilling clip.
Uncle Yan and his wife, who make a living by selling steamed buns, have worked hard for most of their lives and used all their savings to buy a house for their son.
However, after his son moved into the new house, instead of thanking his parents and taking them to live with him, he didn't even let his parents in.
Uncle Yan and his wife, who pinned all their hopes on their son, could only live on the street with a blanket roll on their backs after being rejected by their son, which is embarrassing.
In fact, there are many examples like Uncle Yan and his wife in real life. The money that the old man had saved all his life hard to save was used to help his children's lives, but in the end, he was disgusted and left homeless.
Therefore, when people reach their old age, they must think more about themselves and keep their money bags, so that their life can be guaranteed in their later years. Once you've given all the money to your children, it's not so easy to get it back when you need it.
2. Healthy body
When people reach old age, apart from money, what is the most important?Nature is healthy!For the elderly, having a healthy body is happiness!
As the saying goes: there is no filial son in front of the bed of a long illness.
When people are old, sick and unable to take care of themselves, they need to be accompanied and cared for by their children at all times, and gradually, children who are trapped in front of the hospital bed will lose the last bit of patience and filial piety to their parents, and become indifferent and ruthless.
However, this is not entirely to blame on the children, after all, in addition to the obligation to support their parents, children also have to take on the responsibility of earning money to support the family and take care of their children, and the burden on their shoulders is too heavy to be by their parents' side at all times.
Therefore, when people are old, they should pay special attention to their bodies, which is not only to reduce the burden of providing for their children, but also to reduce the pain of their old age. After all, once a person loses his health, not only will he suffer from the torture and destruction of the disease, but also the psychological suffering and pain.
3. Open-mindedness
A good attitude is the treasure of life. Whether you live happily in your later years is directly related to your mentality.
When people reach old age, don't always think cranky, and don't worry too much about their children. Look down on everything and live more calmly, so that life will be better.
Some old people always trap themselves in an impasse: I can't move in the future, will my son and daughter-in-law leave me alone?If I don't treat my grandson well, will my grandson dislike me in the future?A hundred years later, the house will be left to a son, a daughter, or a grandson?......
The future is unknown, and the most important thing is to live the present.
No one knows what you will be like in many years, but what you can do at present is to maintain a good attitude, ensure enough sleep, and maintain regular exercise, only in this way can you make your old age happier as much as possible.
Conclusion: If you want to avoid a bleak evening, it is very important to keep your money bag, keep your health, and have a good attitude.
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