Sharing isn't just about being willing to share time with others, it's about being willing to share everything that can enhance your relationship.
The beginning of love is built on willing giving;The end of love is the beginning of convergence in front of your partner.
In marriage, if the husband and wife are no longer willing to share the "three things", it means that the relationship between each other has encountered a lot of crisis, and it is really necessary to treat it carefully.
No more sharing each other's lives.
Living separately. After marriage, no matter whose life is a land of chicken feathers, it is trivial and boring.
And the brightness of this life lies in being able to support each other and get through the quagmire of life.
So, the trivial things in life don't seem to matter;But it reflects the most authentic side of the couple and what loves each other.
As La Rochefoucauld once said:
The trivialities of life contain the true meaning of feelings.
When couples no longer share the trivial things in their lives, it means that they close the door to each other, and the sense of distance between them is bound to increase.
Just as her friend Yuyu confided, she saw what they looked like when they were in love, and she knew that the two of them today had reached the point of separation.
She has become accustomed to taking things by herself and no longer sharing them with her significant other;Most of the time my husband comes home is either playing with his phone or going to bed at the end, and the conversation between the two is getting less and less.
Between husband and wife, there is endless nonsense, just proof of love;No longer sharing daily life, emotional distancing.
No more sharing their hobbies.
Everyone will be buried in the dust.
Two people being together and having the same interests and hobbies can promote a sweeter relationship.
is like Aunt Zhang and Uncle Shen in "Know If You Want".
For historical reasons, Uncle Shen Guo married Xiao Zou as a concubine, because Xiao Zou was the sister of his ex-wife, and he was not used to her, and even used to the concubine killing his wife, and did not take his wife Aunt Zhang seriously.
Aunt Zhang felt very bitter in her heart, and after listening to Minglan 's advice, she no longer paid attention to her husband's attitude towards herself, but happily lived out her own taste. Uncle Shen Guo found out that his wife actually played polo well, and he was ready to move, leaving only his eldest wife and sister, and happily went to court with Aunt Zhang.
The relationship between the two people, because of the blessing of common interests, is much more harmonious.
The common interests between men and women can lead to more interaction and communication, especially between husband and wife, if both parties are together, there is little intersection of common interests, and each other does not know what the other likes, which is bound to reduce the emotional intimacy.
As Boise said:
A common interest can bring two people closer together;If we lose these, the distance between people becomes very far.
So, whether a relationship can survive or not, the management method is really important.
No more sharing with each other.
An important moment in your life.
Because I care, I hope that the most important person in my heart can accompany me through the most important moments of my life.
If both spouses do not need each other's company at important moments in each other's lives, and sometimes, are not even willing to share the highlights of their lives with their partners, it is clear that the rift between them is gradually growing.
As Rabindranath Tagore said:
There's nothing more important than having someone with you during the big moment.
My friend shared with me a little incident between her and her husband: one time when she was out and out, she fell off her bicycle because she was unstable, cut her knee and injured her hand.
The first time, she didn't deal with her own wounds, but called her husband and cried about her grievances.