Although, everyone has their own value, and every item also has its own use.
But for a specific person, no matter how good it is, if it doesn't mean much to you, what's the use?
Such a person or item will naturally be considered cheap.
However, no one is born with a priceless value, and many of the formation of their own values are the result of acquired efforts.
Therefore, if a person wants to live his own value and become a useful person in the eyes of others, he needs to constantly work hard and optimize himself.
Women who are "cheap" in the eyes of men have these two characteristics.
As long as you work hard enough, it's definitely not one of them.
A woman who is too proactive
It is said that women can't be too active, and if they are too active, they will be easily despised.
Even if you like someone very much, like to think about it until you can't sleep, you have to pretend that you don't care about him, and hide that excitement deep in your heart.
There is some truth in this statement, they take the initiative to get closer, and they have worked hard to get it, and in the hearts of men, their value is obvious.
It is also said that if you are too active, you will seem cheap, and if you are too passive, you will miss out, so a crush is the best.
However, if the crush is really so beautiful, there will not be so many men and women who take the initiative to pursue love.
Let the relationship start with the heart and end with the crush.
It's a pity that although there is a person living in my heart, I am separated from him by thousands of rivers and mountains, and I can't replace the reality of possession.
Therefore, there are so many brave unrequited lovers, even if they know that their pursuit is fruitless and even disliked, they still put down their self-esteem and fight hard, just for a result.
Either have each other, or die from now on.
True love should be the result of mutual pursuit and balance.In fact, a really good love is mutual love.
If you love someone very much and take the initiative to approach him, but the other person does not love you or even ignores you, it may be because you are not good enough.
Then you might as well refine your heart, cultivate diligently outside, and strive to change yourself, so that a different, better you can be presented in front of him, this is what a woman should have, and it is also the most correct way to fight for love.
Maybe you can finally impress him and complete your love.
Perhaps, he failed to fall in love with you in the end, but you tried your best to fight for it, and you will not leave regrets, maybe you really have no chance.
But at this time, you have already completed the transformation, perhaps, has become a special scenery in the eyes of others, and you will eventually deserve better.
Delicious lazy woman
The lazy food here refers to spiritual inertia, which leads to looseness in life.
Most of these women are not ambitious and self-motivated, and it is easy to form a complete dependence on men, and it is difficult to be independent at all.
Some people say that there is nothing wrong with a woman becoming dependent on a man.
A woman is not dependent on you in life and is not attached to you spiritually, and she is not far from not loving you.There is also a certain truth in this, true love will have needs for each other, and they will depend on each other, and appropriate dependence will make both parties have a sense of happiness of being needed.
But the most beautiful appearance of love is that it is interdependent and independent, rather than completely dependent.
A man also has life and emotions, career and lows, and he not only needs someone to share his joy with, but also someone to support his negative moments.
Therefore, men are not omnipotent, able to do or willing to be the output of a woman's life.
What they really want to find is actually a woman with their own pursuits and self-motivation, who can share the joys and sorrows of life with him, and can also achieve soul interaction with him.
If a woman wants to be treated sincerely, she must first learn to be independent, and then work hard to grow, so that she can gain sincere love.
Sakura message
Throughout our lives, we will always have all kinds of encounters and desire to be recognized and respected by others.
Especially when we encounter the sudden love in our lives, we also very much hope to be able to grasp it and hold it for eternity.
However, these are needed, and we have enough value for ourselves.
A person's value can often be reflected in the eyes of others.
The formation of our own value can only be improved by ourselves.
The harder you work, the better you are, and your value is inseparable from your efforts and growth.