The secret of the strange phenomenon in the countryside is revealed Those who have the ability are difficult to prolong the incense, and those who do not have the ability have prosperous families
In the countryside, there are both capable and incapable people.
Most of those who were able to do so left the village and went further afield, plus they were used to life in the countryside, so they rarely returned.
Even when they returned, they had little contact with the villagers, so it was not clear whether they were married and had children.
However, most people marry later and have children later, or do not marry at all.
As for those who are not educated, most of them are not highly educated, and when they were in their twenties, their parents began to arrange blind dates for them, let them marry the girls in the village, and then get married and have children.
This is also why, in the village, it is difficult for those who have the ability to pass on the lineage, but those who are not able can multiply.
There are several reasons why this is happening in the countryside.
The first point is the perception of the previous generation.
In their minds, blood is to be inherited, and blood is to be inherited.
Every small family must unite in order to better fight against foreign enemies.
If there are offspring, the family will prosper, and people are wealth!
If there are no children in the family, even women will be ridiculed, not to mention not marrying a wife and having children, how is it different from unfilial piety?
Most of the people of the previous generation were farmers, and the more children and grandchildren, the easier the farm work became.
And for a boy, his waist will be straight.
With a son, their family will have more face, and no one will dare to bully them!
On the other hand, if a family does not marry a daughter-in-law, then saliva can drown them!
After getting married, there was no son, and the news spread, saying that they couldn't have children, so it was used as a snack on the streets at the entrance of the village.
Really capable people often grow up in this world at a very young age, and in this world, they know the cruelty of this world, and they also know the difficulties of this world.
There will also be many changes in his mindset during this time.
Perhaps, when he first started, he had a pure heart and a pure heart.
But with the blows again and again, his nature is also changing little by little, and he has a new understanding of many things.
With so many lessons from the past, his mind is gradually not so simple.
Can disguise, can be a person, can speak, can talk, can coax, can coax, can be careful!
When he grows up and has enough ability, he won't worry about his life.
He will buy a house, he will buy a car.
When it comes to getting married, perhaps capable people will have a sincere love when they first enter the society.
When you see a girl you like, you will be tempted.
However, the truth is that no girl will fall in love with an insecure man.
Those who have the ability will be hit by the blow at a young age and will not like someone anymore because they don't have the ability!
Moreover, along the way, he has seen too many women who have been carried away by money, and I am afraid that he has long lost confidence in women.
In his opinion, the world is cruel and there is nothing true love.
Therefore, it is difficult for a capable man, even if he is thriving in the mall, to find a husband who suits him.
The only thing he trusts is himself!
If you don't even want to get married, then what's the talk of inheritance?
Moreover, he is so engrossed in his work that he is busy from morning to night, and he has no time to fall in love at all. The value of an individual is much greater than building a family.
If you don't have the ability, you have no ambition from the beginning, you haven't even completed your studies, and even if you get in, it's just a middle school.
First of all, you don't have any knowledge in your mind, how can you consciously change yourself and change your life?
A person, if he does not study, is even better, his mind is blank and he knows nothing about the world.
The same is true of his family, whose father is rarely literate because of history.
They just want to keep their children by their side, and then let their wives have more children, so that their lives will be satisfied.
They don't know how to live meaningful, visionary lives.
As he could see, he did not realize his insignificance, and in his eyes, the whole world was his.
In such an uneducated farming family, children are forced to do manual labor.
Their family pooled money, scraped together a bride price, and held a ** wife in the palm of his hand like a bodhisattva, afraid that if he was unhappy, his wife would run away, and no one would want it in the future.
For these countrymen who have no skills, having children is their biggest task!
Although they don't have much ability, they always think that if they have more children, the children will be able to get ahead, so that their lives can be turned upside down.
In fact, how sad it is to think like this!
This is not a child, but a machine that can turn his life upside down.
A child born in this situation must be miserable!
However, those ignorant parents understand that it is difficult to achieve results only by relying on their own diligence.
This is the work of three generations and a great asset.
The most important thing is that parents who raise an accomplished person are also very good themselves, and their biggest role to their children is guidance!
It's not because of how good their children are, but because their parents are good in their own right, they are genetically good and need a lot of money!
But those ignorant parents don't care, I want to have as many children as I can.
If one doesn't work, then another one. Still useless, endless reproduction.
It can even be said that they are giving birth.
Under the influence of this concept, the children in the village have started a family very early, have children very early, and have grandchildren, how can they not open it?
In fact, it is not an easy thing for those who are capable and those who are not capable to survive.
There is such a scene, a limousine is waiting for a red light, a young girl is sitting in a battery car, and two men are sitting in two different positions, staring wide-eyed.
Capable people think:
Ah! I really envy that young man on a bike, he already has a wife, and her wife still hugs him very tightly, and I don't have that much money to buy gas. ”
With that, he looked at the empty co-pilot.
The young man, who couldn't ride, looked at the limousine and thought, "Hey! Look how rich he is! As he spoke, he lowered his head and said to his broken motorcycle.
From this scene, two men with different identities can see that they are capable or incapable.
Moreover, both of them are possessed by each other, but they ignore the desires of their hearts.
So, how can people who are capable, and those who are not, not happy? Actually, it's because it's too hard to survive.
In the eyes of most people, those who have the ability are free of food and clothing, and have great wealth.
In fact, a capable person, no matter how capable he is, has to pay a lot of price in order to obtain his own wealth.
Under normal circumstances, you can't buy it on your own, unless it's a wealthy family, you have to borrow a lot of money.
The danger is far beyond the imagination of ordinary people.
At this time, many people will ask, why can't you not borrow money?
It's not impossible, it's just that everyone has a different view of life.
It is enough to have bread, and those who have the ability do not want to live so miserably.
You think it's nice if you can live in a hut.
It is because they have different pursuits of life and different pursuits of quality.
Therefore, those who can afford it, although they look good, have to pay back a lot of money every month.
Those who have the ability have a hard time, so in the country, can those who do not have the ability live better?
No, how can it be so easy for people in the countryside? His son doesn't go to school, and he's so poor that he clangs.
They all owe money to their relatives and friends, so they will desperately get married.
In their eyes, having no children and grandchildren is a great shame, a great shame.
They must have descendants to honor their ancestors.
It's easy to get married, why is this happening?
The wives who have been bought at a large price have grasped their weaknesses, and in order to achieve their own goals, they will try their best to embarrass them.
Those elderly men, as well as their husbands, are constantly busy living, just to let their ancestors be able to continue the bloodline of their clan.
One can imagine how much pressure he was on.
Having said that, those who have the ability do not marry and cut off their children and grandchildren; Those who do not have the ability will multiply from generation to generation.
It is difficult to say which of these two kinds of people is right and which is wrong.
For the poor, if there is no food to eat, it is already very happy to have a bun; In the eyes of rich people, it is already good to have a woman who does not want his money.
In the eyes of the incapable, envy of the wealth of the capable; It is also a treat for those who have the ability and those who do not.
Happiness is incomplete, and whether you are capable or not, you will have times when you regret it.
Either cut off the incense, or the people are thriving.
It's a time for everyone to enjoy.
At the end of the day, you are yourself, not someone else.
If you live well, future generations will be happy because of you.
If an old man is not rich, although he has many children and grandchildren, no one will respect him.
Doing what you should do and guiding your juniors to do what you want to do is true happiness!