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Today is the 14th and 49th day of the 2024 daily update.
In the last episode of the second part of "Ode to Joy", Fan Shengmei proposed to break up with Wang Baichuan, and Wang Baichuan gladly accepted.
Fan Shengmei is just like her name, she is better than beauty, at the age of 31, she has nothing but beauty.
Over the years of work, Fan Shengmei has met many men, some sincere, some false, some who don't look down on her, and some who she doesn't like.
Among the many men, only Wang Baichuan is the most desperate for her, even if he knows her complicated original family, he insists on not marrying her.
But in the end, the two parted ways, and Fan Shengmei's dream of relying on a man to realize a car and a house in Shanghai was shattered.
On the other hand, Qiu Yingying, who lives in the same house with her, is much luckier than her, married to a high-quality male who has a house and a car in Shanghai. Why can Qiu Yingying do it easily, but Fan Shengmei can never do it.
The biggest reason is that they think and act differently towards feelings.
Qiu Yingying knows how to give first and regardless of return.
At the beginning of their acquaintance, Ying Qin hit ** to buy coffee from Qiu Yingying, Qiu Yingying learned that he had a cold and wanted to eat bacon rice, so she personally prepared it and sent it to him overnight, and also brought a cold powder.
At that time, they were just fellow villagers, Qiu Yingying's enthusiasm and dedication regardless of return made Ying Qin feel warm.
After that, the two could have more interactions, and their feelings gradually sprouted.
Fan Shengmei is the opposite of Qiu Yingying, in a relationship, she wants the other party to pay first and not do things that have no gain.
For example, to make an appointment for someone else's dinner, to accept someone else's gifts, in short, to get some of the interaction with others first, for this kind of one-sided fellow, Fan Shengmei will never go to deliver food in the middle of the night.
Qiu Yingying's premise for falling in love is because she has a good impression and likes it, not asking the other party to give her a better life.
Because she liked it, Qiu Yingying and Ying Qin fell in love, and the two occasionally ate together, Qiu Yingying felt that the lunch box Ying Qin bought was too expensive, so she asked him not to buy it, and cook for him by himself and bring it to him.
In the process of falling in love, Qiu Yingying never mentioned asking Ying Qin to add her name to the house book, even if the two talked about marriage later, she never mentioned this request.
Because Qiu Yingying felt that the house was bought at Yingqin's own expense, she couldn't ask for this, not to mention that the two were together, so she didn't have to care about this.
It is precisely because of Qiu Yingying's attitude that she is not greedy for her own money that Ying Qin likes it even more and feels that she has found the right person.
On the contrary, the premise of Fan Shengmei's love is to find a man who has a house and a car in Shanghai, so that he can live the life he wants.
Fan Shengmei knew that it was impossible to buy a house in Shanghai with her meager income and minus the cost of supporting her family, so she put her dream on others.
When Fan Shengmei learned that Wang Baichuan's car was rented, she looked down on him a little. Andy persuaded Fan Shengmei that why not the two of them buy a house together with a mortgage, which would be easier.
Fan Shengmei didn't want to, she just wanted to find someone who already had a house and a car, and she had to add her name to the house book, otherwise she would break up.
Men are not stupid, no one's money is blown by the wind, if a woman only cares about her own money, then it will also make men wonder whether the other party loves themselves or their money.
So even Wang Baichuan, who wanted to marry Fan Shengmei, couldn't accept her behavior.
The landlord wants to raise the rent, Qiu Yingying is unemployed, so she suggests cooking, which can save a lot of money, Fan Shengmei said that she eats less, and cooking has fumes, so it is not recommended to cook.
Qiu Yingying proposed to make soup by herself and not stir-fry, and Fan Shengmei agreed, but she didn't cook herself.
Fan Shengmei is already poor, and she is not willing to buy vegetables and cook to save money.
Fan Shengmei eats with men in relatively high-end places every time, and eats at Hilton several times with Wang Baichuan, and every time the man pays.
It looks very high-end, but a man marries a wife to have a good room at IKEA, who will marry a man who eats a big meal every day.
On the contrary, Qiu Yingying was reluctant to spend money to buy expensive bento boxes for herself, and would rather cook her own food and bring it over to eat together.
Ying Qin saw Qiu Yingying like this and felt that she was a good girl who knew how to save money for herself and live a down-to-earth life.
Because Qiu Yingying knows how to pay first and regardless of returns, love is love without asking for money from the man, and knows how to save and live a down-to-earth life, and finally won the love of the attendee, and the two tied the knot.
Fan Shengmei just doesn't understand this, so she is still single. Do you think Fan Shengmei deserves it?