The Liu family brothers, who proposed to support the elderly in a group, have been living a comfortable and beautiful life. They bought a farmhouse and transformed it into a place for the elderly. Each room is separate and decorated quite comfortably. The eldest brother and the third brother and others have already moved in, and the fifth brother and the eldest sister have also joined soon. The retirement site has become a home of laughter and laughter, especially when nephews and nieces come. The Liu family's pension model has attracted the attention of the outside world, and some people have come to inspect and plan to buy land and build a house nearby for the elderly.
However, the second brother Liu Jinglu and the second sister-in-law were rejected to join. Although they also want to enjoy the happiness of retirement with everyone, they have no one to take care of them. The reason is mainly because the second brother has a greater say in the family, and because he promised that his mother would take her over after she retired. However, the second brother receives a monthly salary, while the other siblings need to spread out a certain amount of pension expenses every month. This arrangement makes everyone feel unfair. Although everyone eventually accepted the monthly pension payment, this move caused dissatisfaction and resistance, especially the pension fee is even more unfair to the fifth child who has not received money from the second brother's family.
Soon after, the second brother forcibly sent his mother to a nursing home and continued to let everyone share the cost. Although everyone was dissatisfied with this, the second brother claimed that the nursing home would bring better happiness to his mother. However, half a year later, the mother confided in the elder sister and the third brother in pain, complaining that she was bullied in the nursing home and the food was not delicious. Faced with his mother's pain, the third brother and the elder sister resolutely took their mother home, but this caused dissatisfaction and accusations from the second brother's family.
Therefore, when the second brother proposed to join the farmhouse for the elderly, everyone disagreed. Although the eldest brother said that he could let him come, the elder sister was worried that it would affect the stability of the pension place. Everyone began to discuss whether the second brother should be allowed to join, but there were many opinions. In the end, there was no news to convey to the second brother, which meant that everyone did not agree to his joining. During the research, although the eldest brother offered to let him come, the elder sister was worried about the stability of the farmhouse. Netizens have different opinions on this issue, what do you think about it? Should the second brother be allowed to join the farmhouse?
In my opinion, the way of the Liu family and the elderly has indeed allowed them to live a comfortable and beautiful life. After all, brothers should support each other and spend their old age together. However, the issue of old-age care is not only a financial consideration, but also a consideration of the relationship and stability of family members. In this example, the addition of the second brother may bring conflict and instability within the family. Although everyone did not completely reject his joining, there was still resentment and dissatisfaction with the second brother's previous behavior, which also made it impossible for them to reconcile easily. Therefore, when dealing with such situations, we need to adhere to the principle of fairness and justice, and fully consider the importance of family stability.
All in all, group care is a commendable way to allow the elderly to live a comfortable and beautiful old age. However, in the process of implementation, we also have to face various problems and confusions. Every family has its own unique circumstances and considerations, so decisions need to be made on a case-by-case basis. The key is to maintain communication and understanding among family members in order to achieve the goal of sharing care for the whole family. At the same time, the society should also strengthen the care and support for the elderly, and provide them with better pension services and conditions. Only in this way can every elderly person enjoy a fulfilling and happy life in their old age.