Recently, a friend told me: "Today's circle of friends is becoming more and more meaningless, either advertisements or all kinds of exposure, I think it is meaningless, so I close the entrance to the circle of friends." ”
In fact, I feel the same way, but I'm more casual, I don't like to watch it, I don't look at it, and I'm too lazy to close it, because I'm usually busy with work and rarely have time to browse, but it's true that as my friend said, the dynamics of the circle of friends have become impersonal and indifferent.
I don't know if you have noticed that more and more people have set "three days to be visible" in the circle of friends, perhaps they have taken some things lightly, but some people's settings are incomprehensible.
often show off their lives in the circle of friends, and even the content full of negative energy, which makes people feel bored and seems to be very "cheap", of course, the circle of friends is a personal space, but you can't just take care of your own feelings, and ignore the feelings of others.
Although it is a personal right to publish something, you can't post things at will, otherwise it is easy to attract disgust, and sometimes you will even be blocked and resentful of you.
Some people say that the content of a person's circle of friends can often reflect their life status, and if you think about it, it seems to be true. Therefore, those who are smart will think about it when they post on Moments, instead of posting some "cheap" content.
People who like to post these three types of content in the circle of friends, are you one of them?
1. Post red envelopes given to you by your relatives or lovers
It's not a bad thing to update your circle of friends once in a while, at least it can let your friends know how their lives are late, and let everyone remember that there is such a person as their friend. But some people often post some dynamics that seem to be "price dropped".
During the Chinese New Year, we may receive some red envelopes from our loved ones or loved ones, which is a happy thing. But some people still want to take screenshots and send them to the circle of friends, I don't know if they want everyone to envy their lives, or show off.
Either way, it makes people feel that this person is very "cheap". There is no need to post this kind of thing, just know it yourself, because it is easy to cause people to complain, and sometimes it will make people think that you are vain.
2. Often post yourself and your lover's **, and even post intimate photos with multiple members of the opposite sex
Some people like to record some information about their lives, so they often post themselves and their lovers in the circle of friends, and even post intimate photos with multiple members of the opposite sex. Maybe these people just want to record their lives, but there are also people who just want to show their happy lives and hope to be blessed by everyone. But some people don't like to see such content, and feel that people who post this kind of circle of friends are very "cheap".
Thinking about it deeply, it seems that this kind of thing does have a bit of a "price drop", because ** is often more private. If you really want to record your life, you can put it in the **album, and there is no need to post it to the circle of friends.
Many people will say: "People don't get in the way of you when they post on Moments"? Of course, it won't get in your way, but you often post intimate photos of yourself and multiple members of the opposite sex, which can easily cause unnecessary gossip. This kind of dynamic will make people think that you are very attentive and not good for you and others, so it is better to post this kind of content as little as possible, even if it is a happy photo of your family, don't post too much, otherwise it will seem that you are very "cheap".
3. Post your own chat records with others, especially those who say bad things about others
Chat history itself is privacy between individuals and others, and since others can tell you something, then you also have a responsibility to protect the privacy of others, especially those who say bad things about others.
It's normal to chat between two people, maybe you like to post in the circle of friends, but post your chat history with others without the consent of the other party, especially screenshots of those content that talks about the rights and wrongs of others behind your back, which will not only embarrass your friends, but also make people feel that your character is not good.
People who post this kind of content in the circle of friends often appear to be "cheap", because your circle of friends will not be happy to see such content, and it will even destroy the trust and friendship between you.
The circle of friends is a place for everyone to connect with friendship and maintain relationships, and it is good to update the news occasionally, but remember to take into account everyone's feelings and don't post content full of negative energy all day long. Despite the personal rights and freedoms of posting, after a long time, you will find that no one wants to give you a thumbs up, and no one will want to contact you because the content you post will make people think that you are "cheap".