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Hello everyone, I'm Wanxing. Do you know? Some women are very sure of their husbands, and they can speak to the public at any time: Even if all men in the world cheat, my husband will not cheat, he is very honest, loves children, and is filial to the elderly, I can rest assured. But in fact, such reassuring men are often the easiest to ignore, and they are also potential targets for extramarital affairs, because no one will worry about him cheating, or even think that he is a model husband.
part1
Lao Li has always been a model husband in everyone's eyes. He gives a lot of his monthly salary to his wife, pampers his children, and takes good care of the elderly in the family.
However, it is unbelievable that just last month, Lao Li was revealed to have an extramarital affair. The news was like a bombshell that caused an uproar among relatives and friends. People are talking about it, how could Lao Li, a seemingly perfect man, do such a thing?
In fact, Lao Li's married life is not as happy as it seems to outsiders. The relationship between him and his wife has long been exhausted in the trivial life of day after day.
Every day when he came home from work, Lao Li faced his wife's endless complaints and accusations, and no matter how good he did, his wife could always find something dissatisfied. In such an environment, Lao Li gradually felt exhausted.
part2
One night, Lao Li worked overtime until late and didn't come home until late. He dragged his tired body into the house, only to find that his wife was already asleep. Looking at his wife's sleeping face, Lao Li suddenly felt an inexplicable loneliness and loneliness.
He sat on the couch, lit a cigarette, and silently recalled all these years of married life. He remembered everything he had done for this family, remembered the gentleness and thoughtfulness of his wife, and remembered the innocent smiling face of the child and the kind gaze of the old man. However, it all seemed to be getting farther and farther away from him.
At this moment, Lao Li's mobile phone suddenly rang. He glanced at the screen, which showed an unfamiliar number. He hesitated, but pressed the answer button anyway. A gentle female voice came from the other end, asking with concern why he hadn't come home so late.
Lao Li was stunned for a moment, and then realized that this was one of his assistants, Xiaoling. Xiaoling is a young and beautiful girl, and she usually admires Lao Li very much. At that moment, Lao Li suddenly felt a long-lost beauty. He chatted with Xiaoling for a long time, and didn't hang up until the dead of night.
part3
Since that night, the relationship between Lao Li and Xiaoling has undergone subtle changes. They began to contact frequently, from work to life, from family to emotion.
Xiaoling's care and thoughtfulness made Lao Li feel an unprecedented ease and pleasure. It was as if he had returned to his youth and rediscovered the feeling of being in love. Lao Li started to work part-time, and with the money from the part-time job, he invited Xiaoling out to eat and watch movies.
However, paper can't contain fire after all. The relationship between Lao Li and Xiaoling was soon discovered by his wife. His wife angrily asked Lao Li why he betrayed her, but Lao Li was speechless.
He knew what he was doing was wrong, but he couldn't explain why he did what he did. His heart is full of struggles and contradictions, he wants to save his marriage, but he can't let go of his relationship with Xiaoling.
part4
At this critical moment, a friend of Lao Li gave him some advice. A friend told him that marriage needs to be managed, and it is not possible to blindly pay in exchange for happiness.
He needs to communicate openly with his wife, find out the crux of the marital problem, and work together to solve it. At the same time, he must also learn to cherish the people in front of him, and not wait until he loses it to regret it.
After careful consideration, Lao Li decided to confess everything to his wife and ask for her forgiveness. He admits that he made mistakes in his marriage, but he is willing to put in the effort to save it. Although his wife was angry and sad, she saw Lao Li's sincerity and determination, and finally chose to forgive him.
In the days that followed, Lao Li and his wife began a difficult journey of marital repair. They communicate openly and honestly about each other's feelings and needs, and face the problems in their marriage together.
Lao Li also tried to change his behavior and attitude, spend as much time as possible with his family, and care more about his wife's feelings. Gradually, their marriage came out of the haze and regained the happiness and warmth it once had.
Conclusion:
So back to the story itself, the salary is handed over, the children are cared for, and the elderly are cared for, why does he still have an affair outside of marriage? From Lao Li, we found 5 points: the wife does not know how to be grateful and cherish Lao Li (always dislikes Lao Li for not doing well enough), the wife is too confident of him (ignoring him), married life loses freshness, women outside of marriage are too proactive, and Lao Li does not know how to communicate with his wife.
This experience made Lao Li deeply realize that marriage requires the joint efforts and dedication of both parties. Only by cherishing the people in front of you and managing your marriage with your heart can you reap true happiness and fulfillment.
At the same time, he also understood a truth: no matter how big the outside world is, sticking to your own principles and bottom line is the most important thing. Only in this way can we avoid "going astray" on the road of marriage and move towards a better future.