Reading the original book, I know that Zhou Bingkun's success in life is not easy
Less than four months after Zhou Bingyi's death, Hao Dongmei married someone else, which made Zhou Bingkun feel very lost. When he saw her again, he found that she had become slightly fat, her complexion was very good, and she had also gone to South Korea for plastic surgery, she looked five or six years younger, and she had obviously found a new home, which made Zhou Bingkun feel even more heartbroken.
When Zhou Bingkun saw Hao Dongmei trying to keep his distance, his heart was full of pain. Since his brother married Hao Dongmei, he has regarded her as family. However, at the moment, their relationship is as distant as strangers.
However, Zhou Rong actively participated in Hao Dongmei's wedding and became a bridesmaid. She is very satisfied with this former sister-in-law, because according to her, Hao Dongmei is a good sister-in-law and a good woman, and a good woman cannot be alone for a long time.
Therefore, she believes that it is inevitable that Hao Dongmei will find happiness, and there is no need to feel regret or tears, and even blessings should be given. Zhou Rong pays more attention to reality and can quickly accept and recognize the ruthlessness of reality.
Zhou Bingkun, on the other hand, attaches more importance to emotion, and his indifference to reality makes him feel sad and sad.
The three children of the Zhou family have their own characteristics, among which Zhou Bingyi and Zhou Rong are talented and intelligent, and are loved and cared for by their parents; And Zhou Bingkun is full of inferiority complex because he has been ignored and blamed for a long time, but he has always adhered to the way of loyalty and filial piety and tried his best to achieve both.
Because of her pursuit of love, Zhou Rong resolutely chose to follow Feng Huacheng regardless of her parents' feelings, and told her parents that she should never have given birth to her daughter. Although she can't be filial, her love is also worthy of respect.
Although Zhou Bingyi has the ability to fulfill filial piety, he chose to give up the opportunity to be filial piety in order to become a good son-in-law of the powerful. After Zhou Bingkun met Zheng Juan, he fell in love with her at first sight, but he understood that if he married a daughter-in-law with an illegitimate child, it would bring huge pressure to his parents.
His concession is actually a manifestation of filial piety to his parents. Although Zhou Rong knew her parents' importance and expectations for her, she still insisted on her choice, making her demented old mother and young daughter a burden to her younger brother.
Everyone has their own choices and paths, whether it is filial piety or love, it is an important part of our lives. Whether it is Zhou Bingyi or Zhou Rong, although their behavior is different, they are all trying their best to live and do their best to be their best selves.
Zhou Bingkun said to Zhou Rong affectionately: "You are my dearest sister, how many tears I shed for your affairs in the past, but I am willing, because fate is like this." "For him, no matter how much his parents disapprove of him, no matter how unkind his brothers and sisters are, they are the closest people.
When they need him, he is willing to give everything, even at the expense of his own interests. Therefore, he did not hesitate to take care of his mother, raise Zhou Yue, and even thought about passing on his biological son Zhou Cong to his brother.
There are few people like this in the world. Zhou Bingkun may not be capable, talented, or favored by his parents, but he sincerely gives everything he can for his parents and relatives in the most ordinary way and with the most selfless attitude.
Zhou Bingkun loves Zheng Juan deeply, this love is pure and sincere, without any impurities. In contrast, Zhou Rong's love is more selfish and hypocritical. Cai Xiaoguang is comfortable in love, but his love is often selfish and hypocritical.
After Zhou Bingkun was imprisoned for robbing Zhou Nan, Zhou Rong said that if she had known earlier, she would persuade her younger brother to want to open up and give up Zhou Nan, the adopted son. What made Zhou Rong feel helpless was that the son accidentally born to Luo Shibin and Zheng Juan, a woman with a low IQ, was able to be sent to Harvard and become a doctor of law, while her own daughter could only bow to the wind and be ashamed of herself.
This made her deeply sigh that the creation of fate made people.
Zhou Rong always maintains an indifferent attitude towards her relatives, while Zhou Bingkun loves Zheng Juan deeply, and in order to prevent Zheng Juan from suffering the loss of her child, he decides to challenge Luo Shibin.
In Zhou Rong's eyes, Zheng Juan, who has taken care of her parents for many years, is just a woman with a low IQ, but in Zhou Bingkun's heart, Zheng Juan is a gift from God: there is a kind of woman like an angel sent by God, as long as she establishes contact with which family, the life of that family will become better, she may not be the source of happiness, but she is definitely a refreshing incense that will never be extinguished.
Zheng Juan is such a woman, for Zhou Bingkun.
When Hao Dongmei remarried, Zhou Bingkun took Zheng Juan's hand and walked on the road, full of gratitude, because he fell in love with Zheng Juan and thought it was the luckiest thing in his life.
Zhou Rong thinks that Hao Dongmei is a beautiful thing and a person, but I think Zheng Juan is a really beautiful thing and a woman. Zhou Bingkun was imprisoned twice, and his friends took good care of him and his family.
What is special is that in the twelve years that he was in prison, his own brother only went to see him twice in the years before he was imprisoned, while his own sister has been abroad, and what she watched the most was to catch up with Heqing.
When Zhou Bingkun was released from prison and saw that his family's house had become the worst house in the entire photon film, Qinghe Catch-up felt guilty and felt worthy of the title of "buddy".
Zhou Bingyi has strong strength and conditions to take care of his mother and sister-in-law, who live in the most difficult house, as well as his own nephew, but he has never interfered, even if his mother lives there.
Qinghe catch-up is those who live at the bottom of society, they are ordinary and nameless, even unlucky, but they are Zhou Bingkun's most important friends. However, there is no doubt that Zhou Bingkun has been paying for his friends all his life, and he deserves the title of friend.
So, what is the real success? Is Zhou Bingyi's life considered a success? Career-wise, he was successful, a really good man, a breath of fresh air in politics, but no matter how good and successful he was, it wasn't enough to represent what he was all about.
He seems to be lacking in honoring his parents, and he devotes himself to his own life path, wholeheartedly pleasing his mother-in-law and loving his wife, but ignoring the pain of his own parents.
He didn't feel guilty about himself, but he was full of guilt for his parents. For Zhou Rong, she is not a good daughter, a good mother or a good wife, but she considers herself the best and best version of herself.
However, this selfishness of hers requires many people to pay for her. The family who sent her money, the younger brother who took care of her children, and Cai Xiaoguang, who paid for her willfulness.
Zhou Bingkun, a seemingly ordinary and stupid person, has shown a true, good, and pure quality in his life. He aimed to be a good person, and despite the hardships and setbacks in his life, he persevered, and finally rewrote his ordinary life and achieved his shining life.
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