A new "way of celebrating the New Year" prevails The wife is not sad, and the husband is not worried
New Year, New Atmosphere: The wife has no regrets, the husband is worry-free, and the parents are more assured!
Due to the development of the times and the change of people's thinking, the customs of the Spring Festival are also constantly changing. Faced with the difficult choice of going home in the New Year, many young couples have adopted it"Go back to your own house"new approach. In this way, the wife no longer has to be difficult for her husband, and the husband does not have to make it difficult for his wife, and both families can spend the New Year comfortably. This new type"New Year's Eve Method"It is gradually becoming popular, and it has become a habit in some families.
Couples like the papi-chan couple spend the New Year in their own house. The parents of the two had never met, but they were not bothered or annoyed by it. Pepejo said they didn't do it because they hated each other, but because they didn't think they needed to worry too much. For the parents of the husband's family, their children are the most important, and for their own parents, they are the most important. This is a worrying practice: they respect each other's families, and at the same time make their parents feel warm and comforted.
This new type"New Year's Eve Method"It was an instant hit, and many couples are imitating the practice of papi sauce. For example, Ms. Li from Guangzhou and her husband have been married for six years, and at first she was faced with the problem of returning home. But after discussion, they still chose to go home for the New Year, a tradition that lasted for five years. Ms. Li said that this decision did not cause any harm to the relationship between the two people, on the contrary, the relationship between the two became more harmonious. As soon as this incident came out, it immediately aroused heated discussions and repercussions.
On New Year's Eve, most of them are young women. Especially in the home of a child, the married girl wants to be with her family, but because she has returned to her mother's home, this wish is often not realized. If this measure is universally implemented, it will eliminate the complaints and complaints of many women. Moreover, as a father's child, his family is always the most comfortable, whether married or not. If you can celebrate the New Year at home, you don't have to worry about the embarrassment and troubles of your daughter-in-law returning to your hometown, and you can let the two parents free up their hands, and they don't need to worry about the thoughts of their daughter-in-law or aunt, and concentrate on taking care of their children.
However, there were also objections"New Year's greetings"new approach. Some people say that this may be inhumane, after all, marriage is not just a matter of two people, but of two families. Especially for some more conservative parents, if a daughter-in-law or uncle does not return to visit relatives on New Year's Eve, it will be seen as a lack of education or humanity. In addition, according to custom, if one person comes to the home on the night of the thirtieth day of the Chinese New Year's Eve, it will be regarded as a breakdown of the relationship between the husband and wife, which will worry the parents.
Therefore, when we go home for the Chinese New Year, we must take into account the feelings of parents and parents. It's the best way to do it. For example, if you want to go back once this year, you will go back once next time; It can also allow their parents to take care of them during the Chinese New Year. Especially for couples living in big cities, on the eve of the Spring Festival, they can bring their parents to their homes and celebrate the New Year together, which will not make it too difficult for the wife and husband, and can also make them feel a sense of care and respect.
Generally speaking, there is no unified way to spend the Spring Festival, it depends on the specific situation of each person, and it also depends on the intention of the parents of both parties. It is only in each other's feelings and thoughts that we can achieve a state of balance and harmony. No matter what you do, all you have to do is let everyone have a happy Spring Festival.