While pursuing the efficiency of mate selection, we should not forget the purity of emotions and the warmth of human nature, so that we can truly find the person who fits with us
At present, in order to expand the scope of social interaction and "get rid of singles" as soon as possible, some single young people choose to enter the short ** live broadcast room. In the live broadcast room, the basic conditions such as the blind date's height, appearance, occupation, income, house, and car were placed on the bright side, and they were looked at and screened round by round. Some lucky young people have found a suitable blind date here, but there are also people who have encountered "routines" and "traps". Some blind date live broadcast rooms do not have a review mechanism, and there will be "emotional **" mixed in. (China Youth Daily, January 30).
The blind date has been going on since ancient times. With the development of the times, the form of blind date has also kept pace with the times. Nowadays, blind dates in the live broadcast room can quickly allow strangers to establish contact, and putting basic personal information on the bright side can also allow blind dates to objectively analyze and screen out suitable candidates for themselves. This can not only improve the efficiency of single young people's mate selection and expand the scope of mate selection, but also reduce the information asymmetry in marriage and love.
However, the "spring" of the blind date in the live broadcast room is not necessarily the "spring" of the blind date, and there are many risks. On the one hand, the authenticity of the information of the male and female guests in the live broadcast room is not guaranteed, and some guests will deliberately conceal their marital status, obviously divorced, but lie that they are unmarried; On the other hand, guests often make financial demands in the name of blind dates, and appear to be very sincere when they first come into contact, but borrow money from each other before they have met; There are even some blind date live broadcast rooms that are a big trap in themselves, where the anchors collude with others, sing and "fool" the guests, and constantly lure them to swipe gifts.
In fact, whether it is a traditional marriage agency, an offline matchmaker, or a blind date in the live broadcast room, ensuring that the information of the guests is true and credible is the most basic requirement. Because nowadays, the basic information of single young people is converted into calculable values, such as height and weight, occupational income, etc., and once the information is wrong, the selected objects will not meet their expectations and will be psychologically affected.
It is also important to know that emotional things such as personality and emotional values cannot be quantified, and if you rely too much on personal information, you may miss out on the destined person. Moreover, in the process of choosing a mate in the live broadcast room, it is not excluded that some guests have the mentality of giving it a try and are unwilling to devote themselves wholeheartedly, which brings a potential threat to the stability of marriage and love.
The blind date live broadcast room has received widespread attention, which shows the rationality of its existence, but it cannot be reduced to a place of "hiding dirt and dirt". It is necessary to realize that the blind date in the live broadcast room is just a dating tool, which has both true feelings and routines, and there is no need to expect too much, after all, this kind of tool cannot provide a "direct answer" to solve the problem of marriage and love.
In order to give full play to the positive role of the blind date live broadcast room, the short ** platform must strengthen the real-name authentication and review mechanism to ensure the authenticity of guest information; At the same time, it is necessary to advocate a healthy outlook on marriage and love and avoid excessive materialism. In addition, single young people should also remain rational when participating in live blind dates, not blindly pursuing "hard" conditions, but should pay attention to the internal quality and the emotional fit of both parties.
In a word, only when we pursue the efficiency of mate selection, do not forget the purity of emotions and the warmth of human nature, can we truly find the person who is compatible with us. (Zhengguan commentator Ren Sining).
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