I agree with a sentence: "The height of life is not how many things you see clearly, but how many things you look down on." ”
Therefore, some people live for others to see; Some people live for themselves.
Life is a moment, and being true to yourself is the best way to live.
Those who live for themselves are smart enough to know how to do anything.
Regardless of the eyes of others
Stick to your own path
In life, there are too many people who care too much about the eyes of others and live a life of compromise.
Lu Xun once wrote such a story:
A grandfather and a grandson lead a donkey carrying goods to the market.
When he returned from the market, his grandson rode on a donkey, and his grandfather followed.
A passer-by saw it and said, "This grandson doesn't know anything, so he tells the old man to walk." So the grandson came down and walked, and the grandfather got on the donkey.
At this time, another bystander said: "This old man is so cruel that he tells his grandson to walk." The old man hurriedly carried the child to his side.
But the people who saw it later said, "These two men are cruel to donkeys." So the grandfather and grandson reluctantly came down and walked.
But after they left, some people laughed at them again, "These two are really idiots, they have donkeys but they don't ride." ”
So the grandfather sighed to the child, "Now we have only one way." With that, the grandfather and grandson carried the donkey home.
In this world, the shackles on women's bodies are often heavier than those of men, and no one can satisfy everyone.
But people who like you will support your choice; Those who hate you will only hate you for being superfluous.
The best way to live life is to live the way you like.
Because no matter what you do, if you care about other people's eyes, you will end up being forced to carry a donkey.
As Yang Jiang said: We used to look forward to the recognition of the outside world, but in the end we realized that the world is our own and has nothing to do with others.
In life, you have to live your life well.
When we no longer care so much about the eyes of others, life will not follow the crowd, and we can live as we hope.
No matter how old you are
Make yourself love sports
What kind of state will people be like when they get old?
Rickety figure, pale white hair, stumbling body, and even accompanied by the torture ...... illness
But on one stage, there was a contestant who looked to be in his forties.
During the show, the contestant performed a beautiful dance.
When she introduced herself to her 70s, the audience was amazed.
When asked by an audience member how the grandmother managed to look so young, she said:
"I think the most important thing is to exercise and have a good mentality," she said. ”
We often say, "The sunset is infinitely good, but it is just near dusk." ”
But the years will be kind to those who love sports.
And give it a healthy body and a full spirit.
I agree with the saying: "A woman's beauty follows age, and some people are old when they are young; Some are old but still young. ”
Therefore, women with real brains know this very well in their hearts: no matter how beautiful the face is, it will grow old, but the healthy body and high spirit brought by sports can accompany us for a lifetime.
There is a "most beautiful yoga grandmother in China", her name is Bai Jinqin, and now, she is 78 years old.
Because of the indulgence of her youth, she was diagnosed with cancer in her later years, and when she came out of the ward at the age of 60, she began to exercise and fitness, hoping to regain the lost health.
In the past 18 years, countless brisk walking, stretching, skipping rope ......It turned her body upside down.
She also lived a life that her peers would never have imagined.
Exercise is always the lowest cost, the best health, and the most natural beauty.
Even if you just stick to it for a short time every day, after a long time, you will be pleasantly surprised to find changes in your body.
Don't be too late, choose a sport you love, and stick to it all the way, as long as you always uphold it, you will eventually have fruitful harvests.
No matter how hard life is
Live for yourself
Zhang Youyi once divided her life into "before going to Germany" and "after going to Germany", before going to Germany, she was afraid of everything; When he arrived in Germany, he was fearless.
15-year-old Zhang Youyi, because of an arranged marriage, had to leave school and married into the Xu family.
In the 7 years since she married Xu Zhimo, she has been a compromised and obedient "good daughter-in-law".
But the blind compromise and concession made Xu Zhimo even more unhappy, sarcastically saying that she was a "country bun", and even filed for divorce when she was pregnant.
Zhang Youyi, who left Xu Zhimo, regained her strength and was determined to live for herself.
In this way, a woman with a primary school education and just finished giving birth was admitted to a German higher education institution through self-study in a short period of time.
Soon after graduating, she became the vice president of Shanghai Women's Commercial Bank and the general manager of Yunshang Garment Company.
During the day, she is busy in the company, and in the evenings, she grows her knowledge by studying.
The stability of her career and the growth of her knowledge make her full of confidence and calmness.
Later, Zhang Youyi fell in love freely and remarried, and did not die peacefully until she was 88 years old.
Xu Zhimo later sighed: "Zhang Youyi is a woman with ambition and courage......She's really 'not afraid of anything' now. ”
The ancients said: "When the water is full, it overflows, and when the moon is full, it loses." ”
If you are too selfless to others, you will often lose yourself.
Life is short, and you have to live as you are in a limited amount of time.
In this world, women who really live beautifully also know how to maintain themselves under the multiple identities of family and career.
Not only maintain self-independence, but also have their own careers, hobbies and friends.
This is as mentioned in the New Age Femininity:
Able to maintain their own independent personality, value and dignity, without being dependent on or controlled by others.
Stand firm on your own, have the ability to choose freely, love yourself and others. ”
There are thousands of appearances in life, but they are not as good as the way you try to live for yourself.
I like the saying: "We must have the freedom to be ourselves and the courage to be ourselves." ”
All people are unique beings, and they must know how to be the master of their own lives.
Therefore, a woman, no matter what age she is, should stay awake, look forward, and seek inward.
When the burden on your heart becomes less and less, the pace of progress will become more and more steady.
Click[Like.]For the rest of her life, I hope that every woman can be fearless in the face of life's problems and live a free and beautiful life!
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