When a woman gets along with you, she says a lot of emotional things to you, often expresses appreciation to you, and often puts sweet words on her lips, which makes you feel that she cares about you very much, but many times the more you treat her with your heart and lungs, the more you will feel tired, and some of her words and deeds will bring you discomfort, which makes you feel tired, and sometimes you don't know if she really cares about herself.
If it's true love, how can you feel tired? At this time, you take an honest look at how you are getting along and feel your true feelings.
Maybe one day you will understand that women have these details and seem to care about you, but they don't actually take you to heart.
1.In the name of "not wanting to trouble" you, you are not allowed to get involved in her affairs.
A woman who loves you, wants to stay with you, is willing to stay with you in the twilight, leans on the building to listen to the wind and rain, works hand in hand, and walks the road of life well with you, at this time she will naturally take you to heart and is willing to take the relationship between you seriously.
She will be deeply involved in your life, take care of your affairs, and will not see you, and she will love you in thousands of ways, each of which will make you feel "grounded". At the same time, she will also hope that you can bring her a sense of groundedness, she hopes that you can take care of her more, get involved in her affairs, and if you care about her, she will be very happy.
On the contrary, a woman has a lot of secrets about you, she doesn't want you to get involved in her affairs, and when you are close to her, when you try to get involved in her affairs, she always sees outsiders. If she is in trouble and you want to help, but she always doesn't want to trouble you, for fear of getting involved in cause and effect, afraid of receiving your affection, a woman will get along with you like this. A woman will treat you like this, obviously treating you as an outsider, she says "I don't want to trouble you", and refusing your help is a kind of outward performance.
2.In the name of love, all kinds of unreasonable demands are made of you.
Love is about mutual respect and mutual understanding, the former is reflected in the understanding of each other, and the latter is reflected in the understanding of each other.
Only by understanding each other's personality traits, knowing each other's expectations, and clarifying the boundaries between two people, can we grasp the balance and get along with each other in the way that the other party expects, which is respect for each other.
Born as a human being, everyone has their own ideas and ways of doing things, one-sided requirements for the other party to accommodate themselves and tolerate themselves, often there will be contradictions that are difficult to resolve, the smart approach is to "seek common ground while reserving differences", only in this way, it is possible for two people to have a long-term relationship.
Women ignore this, always make all kinds of demands on you in the name of love, get along with you in a way that you dislike, without a sense of boundaries, which makes you very tired, maybe she says that "love" is supposed to be like this, and you don't feel respected. Women dare to treat you like this, obviously they don't take you to heart and don't value you.
3.If you make mistakes repeatedly, you can ask for forgiveness for reasons such as "I can't do without you".
If a woman truly loves you, treats you as a lover, and wants to stay with you for the rest of her life, she will restrain her behavior and strive to make herself better.
When she does something wrong, she will repent, she will show sincerity to correct her mistakes, not for herself, but also in order to maintain the relationship between you, because she is afraid that she will lose you in the end.
On the contrary, when a woman is in a relationship with you, she will indulge herself, and after doing something wrong, she will have a broken and broken attitude, you have an opinion, cold her, she will ask for forgiveness with reasons such as "inseparable from you", which makes you soft-hearted, and you finally forgive her, but she did not take the opportunity you gave seriously, and still made the same mistake, how can you endure it again and again? If a woman treats you like this, it shows that she doesn't really care about you.