In the Chinese New Year, whether it is a young child or a mature **, they are all immersed in this joy, and no one can resist this deep love.
Especially for children, the Chinese New Year is a special and precious time, they can laugh and play to their heart's content, temporarily put aside the pressure of school, even if they are unwilling to do their homework, they will not be "invited" into a small dark room, and enjoy the carefree childhood fun.
For adults, the Chinese New Year means a kind of spiritual release and comfort. The ups and downs, joys and sorrows of the past year have turned into the past, and now I can finally breathe a long sigh of relief and feel the long-lost relaxation.
No matter how hurried the pace of life is, no matter how tense the flow of time is, it is necessary to follow the principle of relaxation after all.
When it's time to relax, don't hesitate to devote yourself to this rare leisure time, let the tense nerves be soothed, and the tired mind can be nourished.
It's the New Year, and self-discipline can be slowed down
Writer Ai Xiaoyang conducted a deep reflection on the nature of self-discipline during the annual Spring Festival. At this special moment of saying goodbye to the old and welcoming the new, she found that without the professional guidance of the coach and the environmental stimulation of the gym, she seemed to have lost the motivation to exercise, and the fitness results that had been accumulated seemed to be at risk of being cleared in an instant, and the fat that had been thrown off seemed to have a comeback.
However, does this really need to be frustrated? The answer is no. On the other hand, self-discipline may be sharply interpreted as a pattern of behavior that wraps masochistic behavior in a more glamorous way. In our daily lives, we have to abandon laziness and choose self-discipline for the sake of work, livelihood, and family, because these goals cannot be achieved through passive slackness.
Behind self-discipline is a pluralistic value pursuit, whether it is for a healthy body, or for a good image, or for personal growth and progress, or for achieving certain achievements.
Human nature tends to be comfortable and comfortable, and if the quality of life can be guaranteed by doing nothing, who wants to get up and bear that toil? However, the reality is unforgiving, as God has revealed: there is no such thing as a free lunch.
As a result, we have been forced to choose self-discipline for countless workdays, and even when we are physically exhausted and eager to relax, a sense of guilt emerges in our hearts: "How can you stop and rest?" Today's task is not yet complete, and those who are better than you are still struggling. ”
But now, the Spring Festival has arrived, and the whole people are immersed in the atmosphere of celebrating the Spring Festival, no matter how dedicated and diligent people are, they will temporarily put down their work and study at this moment and devote themselves to the celebration of the Spring Festival.
In fact, the proper "swinging" during the Spring Festival is a kind of beneficial self-regulation. Tension needs to be soothed, tired muscles need to rest, and busy brains need to be emptied. If people are always in a state of tension, it is only a matter of time before something goes wrong.
Therefore, let us accumulate strength for the struggle of the new year with moderate relaxation and adjustment at this special node of the Spring Festival.
Therefore, on the occasion of the Chinese New Year, you may wish to slow down appropriately, give your mind and body a chance to breathe, let yourself enjoy the comfort of this festival leisurely, add a few more pounds of health and roundness, and turn a few pages less, which will not prevent you from keeping up with the pace of the times in the new year and keeping pace with others.
However, it is this timely rest and happy mood that will be like an overflowing fuel, giving you endless energy and motivation, so that you can run energetically on the road in the future and meet every new challenge and opportunity.
It's the New Year, so if you want to play, just play happily
A netizen once sighed: "I used to be the kind of person who was concerned about his studies when he was playing games and entertainment, and longed for fun when he was immersed in hard study." This sentence evokes the resonance and memories of many people.
The importance of learning is often more profoundly understood after entering the society and devoting oneself to work. Back then, as students, we were always looking for opportunities, trying to find a moment of joy in the tense study intervals.
Nowadays, we have come to understand that learning and playing are not incompatible, and the paradox is that we have not been able to devote ourselves to learning and play to the fullest, and the two are intertwined and become an unrelieved regret. The true wise man always adheres to the life attitude of "playing to enjoy to the fullest, and learning to be practical and in-depth".
Now that the New Year is here, it's a good time to follow your heart and enjoy the joy. If you want to go out and let yourself go, you don't need to pretend to be self-disciplined at home.
Why not go to the haunting food street? Don't worry about whether your food is labeled as "junk food" or if it's high in oil, salt, or sugar.
It is biased to talk about harm without the principle of moderation. What could be more joyful than satisfying one's appetite? Being able to taste the food and get a sense of happiness and satisfaction from it is something to rejoice in itself.
Or go to the spot that has been planned for a long time but have not set foot in the spot, and enjoy the completely different scenery and feel the completely different customs. Even if the real experience is different from the imaginary vision, there is no need to regret it.
The meaning of travel lies in the mood of freewheeling, the curiosity of new things, and the persistence of exploring interests.
Accept all the "randomness" and "accidents" in the journey, and you may find that they make up the most beautiful scenery of the journey.
Spending time at home is also a comfortable choice if you choose to enjoy a movie, experience a game, or spend a fun time with family and friends.
Life doesn't always have to be pursued by seemingly right, lofty goals, and there is no need to be under constant pressure to achieve success and not be ordinary. The true meaning of life is not only in the accumulation of achievements, but also in the enjoyment of the little bits and pieces of happiness in the process.
Too many rules and constraints tend to weaken the vivid colors of life, making it monotonous and lacking vitality.
Now that the Chinese New Year is here, you might as well unleash yourself and enjoy the fun. You don't need to be a "volume king", you just want to be a person with a rich life and a full heart, so that every day is full of diversity and excitement.
Chinese New Year, an excellent ** "rotten" period
It is not only a deep relaxation, but also a calm adjustment to the rhythm of life. With an unhurried attitude, to immerse yourself in the things you love.
After all, day after day of feasting and laughing, it can also make people feel tired. Therefore, it is a wise way to choose something light and effortless that can start or end as you like.
For example, if you read a book that appeals to you, whether it's a fascinating**, a broad-minded travelogue, or a leisurely prose, you don't need to care if they are practical or not, because the excessive pursuit of utilitarian goals often limits our horizons and mood.
Another example is to try to break away from the items that you no longer like or that have been idle for a long time, and rearrange the room to give it new life. Add a few pots of vibrant flowers and plants, or buy some new and unique household gadgets to rejuvenate an otherwise boring environment.
In addition, you might as well pick up and nourish your hobbies: take beautiful pictures, paint beautiful pictures, cook your favorite snacks, roam the streets on a bicycle, and learn an energetic jazz dance ......
These things that you don't have time to take care of but love deeply on weekdays can be immersed in them at the moment.
Rotten is a process of self-healing and repair. By taking this opportunity, we can repair our emotions, soothe our minds, let go of the problems that plague our hearts, and let go of the obsessions that we can't get.
Accept the fruitless results of hard work, accept your own ordinariness and ordinariness, and even accept the uniqueness that is not recognized by the public. I gradually realized that my life is not defined by others, and happiness should also be created and carried by myself.
If there is a little trauma in your heart that needs to be soothed, why not take advantage of this New Year's holiday to talk to your family, share stories with friends, or go out for a walk alone, so that your soul can be released in the blend of nature and humanity.
Hometown, that affectionate homeland, not only nurtures your life and nourishes your growth, but also is the spiritual harbor that accepts all your joys, sorrows, and sorrows, and accommodates your various forms and appearances.
When wandering in a foreign land, in the face of those hesitating choices, once you return to the embrace of your hometown, it seems that you can find a light to guide the way.
All in all, choosing to "swing badly" at the right time is not to be passive and slack, but to allow yourself to recuperate, accumulate full energy, and welcome the upcoming 365 new days and nights with a new attitude. Don't enter the new year in a mess, and don't blindly follow the crowd and follow the crowd.
Self-discipline, diligence and self-motivation are in pursuit of a better quality of life experience; The timely "swing" is to adjust the rhythm, accumulate strength, and also to achieve a better self. The two complement each other and together build the true face and value of life.
The Chinese New Year is the handover point of the years, carrying a sense of ritual that turns the past into memories and welcomes a new chapter in the future. In this warm and noisy atmosphere, we pray together for good luck in life and hope that the stars will shine brightly in the coming year.
The Chinese New Year is not only a grand carnival for the whole people to participate in the grand event, but also a spiritual baptism that touches the depths of the soul, allowing us to cleanse our souls and move forward at the moment of saying goodbye to the old and welcoming the new.
At this moment, we sincerely invite you to click "Follow", in this precious time of the year, indulge in free joy, get rid of fatigue and shackles, and set sail for the new year with full of hope and hope in this precious time of the year.