When the doorbell rings, you must open the door by yourself, you must turn off the lights when you sleep at night, you must wear your left foot first when you wear socks, and you must eat a complete ...... when eating biscuits
Why are you little and sometimes more persistent than adults, in the face of such a "more serious" you, I will not be bored, I will not yell at you, and I will not think that you are unreasonable, because I understand you enough at this time.
At this time, you may be going through a "sensitive period of order", and you have your own set of internal needs in terms of order, space, method, and belonging.
I am also a person from the past, as parents, just rely on our own thinking, and even emotionally educate children, there is no scientific method, it is basically counterproductive, the parent-child relationship will not improve, and it will also delay the child's ** development period!
I suggest that I still find a professional to consult to solve this problem, I came here like this, the child really can't discipline well, we are looking for a good family on the high road, Song Li teacher is a national second-level psychological counselor, specifically for teenagers who are tired of school and psychological counseling, the content is simple to understand, very easy to understand, and can also propose different solutions to different problems of parents.
I learned a lot of family education knowledge from Mr. Song Li, realized my wrong way of education, and finally knew how to get along with my children correctly, and now I am more like friends with my children.
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At this time, you may be in a strong "self-awareness" stage, and you have your own ideas and opinions about things that interest you.
But no matter what it is, I will use full patience to try to understand you, the starting point of behavior and the inner needs, in the face of children, love is instinct, teaching is the method, understanding is wisdom.
If the child's behavior does not cause danger or harm, we may as well respond with an attitude of acceptance and compliance, "Okay baby, we will do what you say!" ”。
Dear big friends, love children, please start with understanding!