There are always some people in life who think they have a little power and status, and they feel that they are superior to others, and they use various ways to provoke you, insult you, and try to defeat you psychologically. 
Have you ever thought about this question: what should you do when these people make things difficult and insult you?
Do you choose to swallow your anger, or bravely stand up and defend your dignity?
Most people's brain circuits are: "Oops, forget it, it's okay to be wronged." ”
I think it's over after I put up with it, so why bother with this kind of person?
This is a big mistake! When you encounter small things, such as walking on the road, and occasionally meet an unreasonable person, you can laugh it off, and there is no need to be like them.
But when it comes to issues that are more at stake, you have to stand up and not back down.
You take one step back, and he takes ten steps forward. If you show weakness, he will have to make inchesIf you think about it, the end of an inch is to empty your trouser pockets.
Showing weakness will only tell the other person: you can continue to do this, because I will not resist.
When I was a child, our teachers always taught us to "endure the calm for a while", but some people in this world just bully the soft and fear the hard.
In the face of these people, stop holding back your anger! They are like wolves, they smell the weak, how can they let you go?
Offense is the best defense, what you have to do is show your minions and let them know that you are not easy to mess with!
Don't just put up with it when someone is causing you troubleYou have to learn to reciprocate and create problems for them
Children don't like to do homework? Just scolding him and preaching, it's useless, it will directly create more trouble for him.
is serious, stipulating that if he can't finish his homework, he can't watch TV, play with his mobile phone, and even play with his friends, you see how he can't do his homework.
Driving him crazy and letting him know that disobedience comes at a price, which is much more effective than just scolding.
When someone borrows money and doesn't pay it back, do you feel helpless?
It's useless to just sigh on the sidelines, don't just stop at verbal urging, go to his workplace, home, and even his parents' hometown, and expose his unrighteous deeds to the sun.
Don't forget,Stress is sometimes more binding than money, let him jump, and he will know that you are not easy to mess with.
went to his unit to make trouble, and dared to let his boss know that he was a rotten person.
There is trouble at home, and his mother and father have to know that his son is a waste who owes money and does not pay it back.
In this way, you are a strong representative, who dares to bully you!
Don't expect him to be soft-hearted, at this time, you have to be hard and make him feel a lot of pressure.
If your significant other doesn't come home, do you feel like there's nothing you can do? To scold him? Ask him?
None of this is useful. You're going to play later and crazier than he is!
In this way, he will cherish you and value you. You have to let him know that you can't do without him, but that he can't do without you.
The leader oppresses you, don't just complain. In some cases, a direct conflict with the other side may not be the best option.
You can look for greater power to suppress him. For example, build relationships with leaders and let them know that you're not a fuel-efficient lamp.
Sit down at the negotiating table, hedge against troubles and troubles, and see who is afraid of whom. This is not to find trouble, but to protect one's own rights and interests.
The same method can be used in other areas to find the key point that can suppress the other person and let the other person know that you are not easy to mess with.
Someone might say, "You're doing this too aggressively, aren't you?" ”
I want to tell you: there has never been a shortage of radical ideas and actions in this world. We're just used to swallowing our anger and going along with it.
In this world, no one will sympathize with you and pity you because you are weak. On the contrary, they will only respect and fear you because you are strong.
So, guys, to solve problems, sometimes you need to create more problems for the other party.
Don't have illusions about human nature, there is no morality in this world, only the strong can survive. So,Don't show weakness, show favor
You have to be like a hedgehog, you have to have thorns to protect yourself. Don't become that weak and bullying lamb, otherwise, others will be wolves.
I don't encourage you to be a vexatious and unscrupulous person, but I just hope that when you face the difficulties and insults of others, you can stand up bravely and protect yourself from harm.