There are rich husbands, and there are losers. A man wants to marry a woman with a rich husband and bring her home, but if he marries a woman with a useless husband, the family will naturally deteriorate.
When a man meets a special woman, he often needs to develop a keen eye in order to gain insight into her mind and judge whether she is really his lucky star.
Because there are women who seem to be like gods, but they may be suffering from the loss of their husbands. So how do you identify such a woman? Here are five features that might give you some inspiration.
1.Eloquently, but nothing to say.
Some women talk a lot, but if you listen closely, you'll see that their words are empty. He is good at using gorgeous words and exaggerated expressions to cover up the emptiness in his heart.
Such a woman is like an empty bottle that only makes a sound, seemingly lively, but in fact worthless.
As the book says, "Words are a reflection of the soul, and empty words can only represent an empty soul." "Men must be careful when meeting such women and not be fooled by their sweet words.
2.I love vanity and comparison.
Widowed "women love vanity and comparison." They always pay attention to the lives of others, and when they see what others have, they must have it, and when they see what others don't have, they must have it themselves.
Such a woman will never be satisfied in her heart and will constantly look for a man until she gets tired of it.
As the book says, "Vanity is the cancer of the soul, which expands until it consumes the whole life." "If a man meets such a woman, he should leave as soon as possible. Otherwise, he would have to run away. It sank deeper and deeper.
3.Emotions are severe and difficult to **.
Some women's emotions can change at any moment, just like the weather in June. Sometimes the sky is clear, sometimes the clouds are so dark that it's hard to understand.
Such women often lack self-control, and their emotions can easily affect those around them. Living with such a woman, a man will be tired.
As the book says, "Emotional stability is a sign of maturity." "Men need to find an emotionally stable woman to grow up with them and spend their lives together.
4. Selfishness and neglect of others.
"Widowed" women tend to be selfish, thinking only about their own feelings and needs, completely ignoring the feelings of others. In their world, there is only "me" and "mine", and there is no "we". Such a woman, after getting married, can easily become a "vampire" and constantly absorb the blood, sweat and energy of men to realize her desires.
As the book says, "Selfishness is the bondage of the soul, and it destroys the ability to love and be loved." "If a man encounters such a woman, he should stop as soon as possible.
5. Strong dependence and inability to be independent.
Some women are too dependent on others to live or work independently. For them, men are the ones who support them and protect them.
Such women often lack self-confidence and independence, pinning all their hopes on men. However, when men's expectations are not met, they feel disappointed and irritated.
As the book says, "Independence is the foundation of personality." "Men should find an independent woman to fight with and spend their lives together.
Conclusion:
It's not easy to identify "widowed" women, but if you look and think about them, you can always find clues about them.
Remember these five characteristics: eloquence and meaninglessness, vanity and comparison, strong and fluctuating emotions, selfishness and disregard for others, and dependence and inability to be independent.
If the women around you fit these characteristics, it's best to keep your distance from them as soon as possible. Marriage is a once-in-a-lifetime event, so don't let a moment of impulse ruin your happiness.