After becoming a mother, the trajectory of life seems to have come all of a sudden.
180-degree turns.
Before getting off work as a mother, you can also have a beer barbecue with your little sister.
Go shopping, watch a movie, and take a road trip with friends on the weekend.
If you don't want to cook, go out to eat, and if you want to go anywhere, find a vacation and book a plane ticket.
Even if you get married, you don't have too many constraints, and you basically do whatever you want.
After becoming a mother, it seems that I can't finish the daily chores, and I feel at ease when I see that there is a certain amount of money in the card.
Spending money is not as free as it used to be, and trips are even more thoughtful.
The identity of a mother is like a watershed.
With more responsibility on your shoulders, it's hard to walk lightly.
As my daughter grows up day by day, the troubles of education also come.
Maybe life is like this, there is another hurdle to cross.
If you want to live a good life, you can't lie flat.
Since we can't get around these hurdles, let's change the angle.
Balance the following three points, and life should be good.
1.Saving. I have read a sentence: saving money is not used to show off or psychological comfort, but to allow you to advance and retreat in an emergency.
When I was young, I didn't have any sense of crisis, I just satisfied the pleasure of that time.
I can't stand the ** of each shopping festival, for fear that I will lose money if I don't buy it.
As a result, I was the one who threw away the big bag of expired snacks, and I was the one who turned out the clothes that hadn't been labeled for half a year.
Thousands of beauty devices have not been unpacked after they have been bought, and the mobile phones lying in the drawer are actually quite easy to use.
If you don't have a deposit that gives you a sense of security, then be sure to start saving.
After all, 90% of our ordinary people's troubles can be solved with money.
2.Study. Dong Qing said: Read 10,000 books, travel 10,000 miles, and get rid of the dust in your chest. What reading allows us to get rid of is limitations and narrowness, so we must eventually see our own limitations in learning, communication, and exchange, and continue to improve.
Fan Deng said: The answer to all the questions you encounter is in the book. Why Read? You can avoid detours.
Youth Pi": Some opinions on the Internet now, plausible, Boruto, I don't want to review this month and next month. If you read a book, have discernment, and then pursue your dreams, you will not be in the same cloud if you have your own opinions.
Yang Jiang said: Studying is not to get a diploma or make a fortune, but to become a person who understands emotions and thinks. The reason why you are confused is that you read too little and think too much.
Hermann Hesse said: No book in the world can bring you good luck, but they can make you quietly who you are.
Whether it's for yourself or for your children's education in the future, keeping reading is a good thing.
3.No chicken baby.
The chicken baby is not as good as the chicken itself.
When it comes to children's education, I have always believed that words and deeds are better than pointing fingers.
It is better to be the kind of person you want your child to become.
Let the flowers become flowers, let the trees become trees, let the children go, and free yourself.
Life is like a Super Mario, climbing over a wall, followed by another.
But if you look closely, the main line is nothing more than money, your own ability, and your children.
Grasp these three things well, let the inner be full, and the outer bloom.