I'm actually afraid of the Chinese New Year, because during the New Year, I have to go to my husband's house and get along with my parents-in-law who only see each other once a year.
It stands to reason that if we don't see each other often, we will definitely be very polite. But as soon as my husband came home, he would have put me and the child aside and go to his parents.
When I first arrived, I always comforted myself that I had to understand him, after all, I only came back once a year. But later I found out that in fact, even if I understood him more, it would only make him more "inch by inch".
Finally, last year, I exploded and told all the unhappiness in my heart. But my husband still said: Then I will go back once a year, can't you understand me?
So much so that this pimple has always been in my heart. By the end of this year's Chinese New Year, I was still scared in my heart, and I was afraid that I would still be the same when I came back. However, my husband's change made me have a good time this day.
At home during the Chinese New Year, as long as he is with his parents, he doesn't know about my good. In his eyes, it's not easy for his mother. I have never felt that it was not easy for me when we were in our small family.
As an old man said: "The most shallow relationship in the world is that if you don't follow his heart, he will forget all your good, this is human nature." ”
Eating at the dinner table, my mother-in-law prepared a table of food, and she was saying that this dish was delicious and that dish was delicious. My husband suddenly said: Ah Yue's cooking is much more delicious than yours.
It was this sentence that made my mother-in-law's face embarrassed, but I was shocked in my heart. I never thought that my husband would praise me like this in front of my mother-in-law because of a dish.
My husband said, "Mom, what you think is delicious is what you think, not necessarily we all like to eat." You don't always praise yourself for making everything delicious, Ah Yue just hasn't made it for you, and the next time you have the opportunity to let her make it for you, you will definitely praise her.
My mother-in-law didn't speak, and I knew she was unhappy when I looked at her face.
My husband said: Ah Yue is working and taking care of the children at home, it's very hard, don't wake her up early in the morning, it's rare to sleep lazily during the New Year, and you have to wake up early in the morning. Why are you screaming? Just sat there stupidly.
My mother-in-law didn't speak, but I was very happy.
In the past, during the Spring Festival, I was called by my mother-in-law at 6 o'clock in the morning, and the reason for the call was that I was going to visit relatives later. Who has to leave relatives so early?
Later I found out that my mother-in-law was an early riser, and she didn't want to see us sleep in. My husband used to tell me to wake up, but now I don't.
Actually, my husband remembers me well, but he always messes up the order. Later, he said: Mom's goodness should be remembered by Dad, and the wife's goodness should be remembered by her husband.
During the Chinese New Year, I was most afraid of visiting my relatives. My husband's relatives can't be counted on two hands.
When I first got married, I had no choice but to follow my husband from house to house. He was chatting happily with his relatives while I was sitting on the sidelines, which was really boring.
Later, some relatives complained about how I didn't talk to them. They spoke in vernacular, and I didn't understand it. When I begged for help like my husband, he didn't care at all.
Every year, I would suggest to him that he should give the gift himself to avoid embarrassment. But he always refused, saying that it was not good and rude.
But this year, he said to me: you go play with the children, and I'll go and finish the relatives.
In this way, because I didn't go to visit relatives, I didn't feel unhappy, and I was very happy. Even the children said that their mother seemed to be smiling these days.
I secretly asked my husband, why didn't you let me go this year?
He said: I also reflected on it, and I feel that many times it really makes me very difficult. If the relatives have been together and are still acquainted, it may be better. But how much affection can relatives who see once a year have? He's almost out of touch with them, don't talk about you.
Instead of making you unhappy, get into trouble with me every day. It's better for me to let this bad mood be stifled, and we can just live on our own.
We always think that men don't understand, but in fact, many times men understand a lot, just to see if he reassures you and cares about you.
People who understand you will be more concerned about your emotions than their face. The person who doesn't understand you will always be the biggest and the youngest wife.
Love is equal, and even more so between husband and wife.
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