Pride (live), Wang Yuan.
I don't know how to get through some things like this, but in retrospect, I have more respect for myself.
——*Yong
Adults, all alone in the night secretly licking wounds.
As the saying goes: How can people who have not experienced a trough talk about life?
After experiencing the trough, you can see many people and many things clearly, and only then can you truly understand the ups and downs of life.
A friend, in the first year of the epidemic, boldly bought a suite in Zengcheng, Guangzhou, thinking that he had earned it.
Unexpectedly, it has fallen by several thousand this year, and not only that, but my job has also been in a situation, first with a salary cut, and now he may be laid off at any time.
The huge expenses overwhelmed him, and his wife also had a lot of opinions about him, often with a black face, and didn't want to say anything to him.
Friends and family are very limited in their ability to help, so what should I do?
In this case, you can only rely on yourself, and adults have to take responsibility for their own decisions, rather than pinning their hopes on others.
When people are at a low point, try to learn to keep their mouths shut, because as soon as they open their mouths, they will have no friends.
The real strong man is in the dead of night, when he takes out his heart and sews and mends it himself, and then sleeps and gets up with confidence.
Only yourself, save and ** yourself again and again.
When people are at a low point, don't blame others for not helping themselves, because everyone has their own difficulties.
In recent years, several people around me have fallen into the trough, and when they ask me for help, I always say:
If you don't have the money to eat, I can give you a few hundred, but no more. ”
Because many years ago, I also experienced a two-year low period, and my experience taught me that only by crossing oneself can we become independent and strong.
Few people were intent on pulling people who were at a low point; But when you're trying to climb the edge, there will be a lot of people willing to help.
It's very simple, because during the trough period, others don't have enough spare strength to save you, and it's easy to put yourself on the hook;
In addition, people are more willing to help those who are struggling to help themselves.
As the old saying goes: "Heaven is strong, and the gentleman strives for self-improvement", "Those who help themselves are helped by God, and those who abandon themselves are abandoned by God".
At the end of the day, it's on your own; Lying flat and doing nothing, just waiting for others to save you, people with this mentality will never grow up.
Be proud of yourself, you are your biggest supporter.
If you've been through a low period, you've been through the hardest times alone.
Well, give yourself a round of applause! Be proud of yourself!
Because you have learned to be strong and independent, and you have learned to help yourself and be consistent, you are stronger than ever.
It has been said that everyone who crawls out of the abyss has silently changed his character.
This is because, when people are at a low point, they have endured the warmth and coldness of human affection and looked down on the hot and cold state of the world.
This will break down the entire value system that they have built up in the past, and they will think about the whole world in a new way.
When you get through all the suffering alone, you don't expect anyone anymore.
Because your heart has become strong enough, you have found that life is so beautiful on your own!
Even if there is no one to accompany you in the future, as long as you live with your heart, you can live a good life!
endAuthor|Boss Dragon.
Typography |Qing Yueyue.
*|*Network invasion and deletion.
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