The son graduated from 985 University, and after failing the exam, he became a "gnawing old man", and his father was both confused and helpless
College students' job search has always been a topic of great concern. Although the average level of education is now relatively common and college diplomas are no longer scarce, it still takes a lot of effort from the family to train a college student.
After years of study, there are not only the hard work of individual students, but also the educational input of parents. Whether graduates can find satisfying jobs is directly related to how people perceive how they build confidence in the next generation.
In recent years, some college students have encountered difficulties in the process of job hunting, which has made many parents wonder whether the significance of future career development is limited if they have average grades and are only admitted to ordinary universities. But even if you are admitted to a prestigious school, you choose to "gnaw at the old" after graduation, which is really confusing.
There is an example of a student who graduated from a 985 key university. Although I was admitted to my dream university, I was unable to do so after trying to major in finance, and I was under pressure to find a job. He decided to join the public *** but failed in both attempts, which made the parents feel helpless.
The young man's personality also changed during the experience. He is no longer in a hurry to find a job, nor does he have the intention of continuing to prepare for exams, but frequently goes out to "socialize", purportedly to accumulate contacts. However, these behaviors require "funding" from parents, and the cost of the training institution alone is quite a bit.
For the old father, raising a child who graduated from 985 University should be a proud thing. However, their son's failure in the exam made them helpless, and they felt that it was more of a headache than the average child to find an actual job. This shift is really puzzling, and it also makes people reflect on the career choices and employment status of contemporary college students.
The decision of graduates to apply for the establishment position has aroused widespread attention, and this move has caused a lot of heated discussions on social **. Some argue that the graduate seems to be too reliant on the "gnawing old system", but from his personal point of view, this choice is also understandable.
This decision was clearly influenced from both subjective and objective point of view. First of all, in terms of external reasons, the current employment situation of college graduates is quite severe. Even graduates of some good universities may need to lower their expectations in order to find a stable job.
If the major you are studying is too unpopular, or if you encounter the phenomenon of the "28 rule", it will be even more difficult to find your dream job. This graduate chose to major in finance, although it sounds high-end, but in fact it is not immune to the constraints of the "28 rule".
Some graduates are able to get high-paying jobs, but others may fall into a "more with less money" situation. This may be one of the main reasons why he considered applying for the examination.
However, more and more college students are also becoming aware of this situation, and the popularity of preparing exams has increased significantly. The difficulty of the exam increases, the score line may also increase, and some positions even have 985 college graduates competing for it. For candidates from ordinary families, there may be a lack of adequate guidance and experience in facing such challenges.
Of course, the failure to apply for a post cannot be attributed entirely to objective reasons. From a subjective point of view, the graduate failed to adjust his mindset and coping style in time when he noticed a gap between his job search reality and expectations.
It may be that he was instilled with the concept that "studying well is equal to having a good job" since he was a child, and once he found that the actual situation was not as expected, he fell into an emotional trough. Unable to obtain a position in the establishment, and unwilling to work in the private sector.
Author's Message] Many netizens have made substantive comments, pointing out that this decision has nothing to do with whether the graduates are from 985 colleges and universities. More importantly, whether graduates are able to take the initiative to cope with and adapt to the new employment situation. As the saying goes, "those who know the times are the best ones", which also reminds college students to face the changes in the workplace after graduation.
Now, we'd like to know what advice you would give to this graduate?