No matter how good the relationship between brothers and sisters is, it is inevitable that there will be conflicts because of some trivial matters.
To avoid sibling breakdowns, here are four things we should be aware of.
I have a friend whose brother is in business and is just getting a little bit better.
As a result, their neighbors stirred up, saying that his brother's money was not clean.
My friend, too, believed it and ran to have a big fight with his brother.
Later, I learned that it was the neighbors who were jealous and deliberately sowed discord.
I think of the movie "Casting a Name", Pang Qingyun, Zhao Erhu and Jiang Wu are brothers and sisters, and they have experienced countless battles together and achieved great achievements.
Later, due to the coercion and provocation of outsiders, the brothers fell apart.
The contradiction between the three brothers was cleverly exploited by Lord Jiang and He Kui.
They assassinated Pang Qingyun but made Jiang Wuyang stab Pang in the black cauldron, and easily stole the results of the bloody battle of the three brothers.
In the end, the three of them ended up in a tragic end.
Remember,No one wants you to be better off than him, and the same applies to most relatives.
A gentleman loves money and takes it in the right way".
An eldest brother in our community, after his parents left, his younger brother deliberately hid the situation of the family's property and wanted to monopolize it.
As a result, the other siblings found out, and it was terrible, and they had a big fight, and finally went to court.
What do you call this?
It's all a family, and it's like this for money.
Recently, I watched an old movie called "Happy Events in the Family".
There is such a pair of brothers in it, who originally took care of their parents together and lived with Meimei.
But who would have thought that after his parents left, the inheritance he left behind made his younger brother greedy.
He played a little trick and transferred most of his fortune to his own name.
After my brother found out, it was called a rage!
Two brothers, you punched me and kicked me, and the fight was inextricable, and the past family relationship was all gone at once.
Alas, what a heartache! For some money, he didn't even recognize his own brother, is it worth it?
Some time ago, the TV series "The World" was on the air, and Zhou Rong's performance in the play aroused heated discussions among many audiences.
In order to pursue love, she resolutely went to the mountains of Guizhou and married the poet Feng Huacheng.
Many years passed, and Zhou Rong and Feng Huacheng returned to their hometown.
At this time, Zhou Rong was already a university professor, and her younger brother Zhou Bingkun was still working in a factory, and his economic conditions were really average.
After Zhou Bingkun's son Zhou Nan passed away unexpectedly, Zhou Rong did not give her younger brother more financial support as everyone expected.
On the contrary, she gave Zhou Bingkun and his wife spiritual encouragement to help them get out of the predicament.
In this matter, we not only saw Zhou Rong's helplessness, but also saw his younger brother's understanding.
Actually, this situation is quite common in real life.
Some siblings may not be able to provide more substantial help in the face of family difficulties due to differences in economic conditions.
But that doesn't mean they don't care about their families, we have to understand their situation and respect their choices.
You know, everyone has their own life pressures and difficulties.
When we are in trouble, it is useless to lose our temper or complain.
On the contrary, we have to learn to empathize, understand the position of others, and work together to find a way to solve the problem.
Let the past pass, what's the use of always turning over old accounts?
It will only make the relationship more strained. "The past cannot be admonished, but the future can still be chased", we have to cherish the present.
A netizen shared that he and his brother often quarreled over trivial matters when they were young.
Such as fighting for toys, assigning household chores, and so on.
Although these quarrels didn't seem very serious at the time, they left some shadows in the hearts of the two.
As they get older, their quarrels become more frequent and intense.
Every time they argue, they bring up the past and blame each other for their mistakes.
For example, one will say, "Do you remember the last time you treated me?" ”
Another responded: "What about you?" You've done the same thing before! ”
Such conversations make their emotions more and more excited, and the contradictions become deeper and deeper.
As a result of the long-term accumulation, the relationship between them gradually deteriorated.
They begin to avoid communicating with each other and try not to talk even at family gatherings or other public settings.
Eventually, they almost turned against each other.
The relationship between siblings must be maintained with heart.
Let's stop doing things that may hurt our feelings, be more understanding, tolerant, and give more love.
As long as there is open communication between siblings, there is no problem that cannot be solved.