The problem of singles has not yet been solved, and three strange phenomena have appeared in the countryside, which are even more terrible than the problem of singles, and the old parents are so worried that they can't eat or sleep. It stands to reason that with the development and progress of our society, the conditions in the countryside should be getting better and better, and there should be fewer and fewer singles, but I didn't expect that in recent years, there have been more and more. Take my hometown as an example, most of the people in their 20s used to get married, but now the singles in their 30s are a big handful, however, the problem of singles here has not been solved, and there are three strange phenomena in the countryside, which is really sad!
First of all, the first strange phenomenon is that some young people are too self-respecting, you want to find a daughter-in-law now, not only the bride price, but also many routine problems, take the engagement case of the ex-wife, this is simply unimaginable, and this kind of thing, it is not an exception, before, there have been **, it is really unacceptable, for tens of thousands of dollars, girls can do this degree, it is really a stubborn person like me, I can't understand. In addition, there are some marital problems. This kind of thing used to be less common in the countryside, because in the countryside, the neighbors all knew which family had something to do, and it could be spread out quickly, and everyone was quite restrained for the sake of face. But nowadays many young people, both men and women, don't seem to take these things very seriously. It is precisely because of this situation that many people who want to get married seriously and find a partner dare not look for it.
The second strange phenomenon is that after girls get married, they become more and more pampered. There are some girls whose parents have been pampered since childhood, even if they get married, they still have a young lady's temper, and at home, they don't do anything, and they still think that they have the final say on big and small things. Let's say that if this is a big family in the city, forget it, just the kind of ordinary people in the countryside, ** can afford such a daughter-in-law, you said that you spent a bride price to marry back, laundry and cooking, and will not take care of your in-laws, annoying. There are more serious people who don't look at what conditions in their homes and buy what they like. There is a new daughter-in-law in my village, who actually filled up 5 digits in order to play games, and then, she still has a lot of words. But in this case, most men will choose to put up with it, after all, it's not easy to find a daughter-in-law now, but it's really sad this day.
The third strange phenomenon is that there are more and more elderly people in rural areas. There are few ways to make money to support your family in the countryside now, so many young people choose to go out to work, and then the elderly choose to stay at home. However, now with the increasing number of left-behind children's problems, there are serious and even serious children's safety problems, so some parents are not very comfortable to leave their children with the elderly, so they overcome difficulties and choose to work with their children. If you do this, there will be fewer and fewer children in the village, and in contrast, there will be more and more elderly people in the village. But fortunately, the development of mobile phones is still relatively fast, usually the elderly miss their children, you can play a**, open a**, it can be regarded as relieving longing. I hope that our future rural areas can develop faster, so that the living environment of rural areas can become better. What do you think about these questions, please leave a message in the comment area!