Old people often teach us"It's a blessing to suffer. ”
Reality tells us that it's okay to suffer losses, don't suffer big losses, don't suffer dumb losses.
On the other hand, human nature is complex, and bullying happens from time to time; The nature of chasing profits has not changed.
As Newton said, "I can calculate the orbits of the celestial bodies, but I cannot calculate the madness of human nature." ”Unconsciously, people will fall into the situation of "people are good at being bullied, and horses are good at being ridden by others", and some people do the opposite and take advantage of the kindness of others.
In any case, it is the greatest stupidity to let honest people suffer, but it will accelerate the awakening of honest people and create internal friction in interpersonal relationships.
Letting honest people suffer is the beginning of a person's immorality.
"Lao Tzu" has a saying: "Great wisdom is foolish, great ingenuity is clumsy." ”When a person shows the characteristics of "uncaring, stupid, and low-key", he will be considered an "honest person". As a result, many people habitually push bad things on such people and take the benefits on themselves.
In the last years of the Qing Dynasty, Cixi almost covered the sky with one hand, but the world was not peaceful.
There is a ** named Zhao Shuqiao, who is in charge of the major affairs of the Criminal Department, and is also very fair, and has the praise of "Shocking the World with a Straight Voice".
In the fifth year of Guangxu, a group of robbers robbed in Zhenping County, Henan, and after the incident in the east window, a person named "Wang Shuwen" was guilty.
Because the robbers used their property to hit the government, and many people tried the case, they all insisted that Wang Shuwen was robbing it, and the crime should be punished.
The case was in the hands of Zhao Shuqiao and was reviewed. He quickly found out the truth and put the robbers in jail.
Later, Zhao Shuqiao served as a parent official in many places, and he had a good reputation.
After the Eight-Nation Coalition invaded, they thought that Zhao Shuqiao and the foreigners could not get along, and they had to deal with Cixi.
Cixi issued an edict and gave Zhao Shuqiao to death.
It is not difficult to find that the demise of the Qing Dynasty has a lot to do with "loss of morality". That's rightThose who have attained the Tao have much help, and those who have lost the Tao have little help.
When there are no "honest people" in a group, it means that the remaining people are all intriguing and filling their pockets. The crowd has gone bad, lost the support of the masses, and collapse is not far off.Let honest people suffer, which is the true embodiment of "human nature". If it is not restrained and changed, the vicious human nature will only make people's evil deeds more and more, and at the same time, it will condone the vicious people, forming a vicious circle.
When a person realizes that he is too honest, he will be unsociable.
Honest people seem stupid, but they are not "really stupid", and they often pretend to be confused.
Honest people know that they must be patient, do not tell their inner grievances, and take a step back to open the sky, but their hearts are bright, and whether they have suffered losses or not, this can be grasped.There is a wisdom called"I can't afford to provoke, I can afford to hide". Since in the group, it is always "me" who suffers, so if "I" don't go to the group, everything will be solved.
In the Spring and Autumn Period, Fan Li and Wen Chong assisted King Goujian together.
After Gou Jian was defeated by Wu Wangfucha, he became a slave of Fucha, and Fan Li accompanied Gou Jian to suffer losses, feed the horses and sleep in the stable.
A few years later, Gou Jian began to rise and in turn defeated Fucha and became the overlord.
Fan Li said to Wen Chong: "The rabbit is dead and the dog is cooked, and the bird is hidden." Let's go. ”
Wen Chong said: "We are sincere to Gou Jian, and we have made contributions to the Vietnamese country, so why should we leave?" ”
Later, Fan Li left Yue Guo to do some small business, and life gradually became prosperous. And Wen Chong was thought by Gou Jian that he was suspected of rebellion, and gave an order to give death.
Nowadays, more and more people have learned Fan Li's routine, and under the premise of possibly suffering a big loss, they quickly "hidden".
Throughout the ages, many big people are willing to live in seclusion and do not enter the court as officials, which is the truth.
I read a heart-piercing sentence: "In the world of crows, swans are guilty." ”An honest man is innocent and as beautiful as a swan. But he accidentally entered the group of crows, and his fate began to change.
Relying on the strength of the group, the crow bullies the swans, causing the swans to have to bow their heads and always serve the crows. In his bones, the swan is reluctant to integrate into the group of crows, and there is always a chance to escape.
When honest people are sharp, the environment begins to deteriorate.
Screenwriter Bai Bonnie once said: "Kindness is very precious, but kindness does not grow teeth, that is, weakness." ”When honest people suffer losses again and again, they begin to have teeth, and their edges are exposed; Coupled with dishonest people, there has always been a sharp edge, then this world has become a "hedgehog world". Hedgehogs keep warm together, which is the beginning of hurting each other, and there is never a little warmth.
In the Spring and Autumn Period, Zheng Linggong got a gift - turtles.
In order to share the gifts, he arranged for the cook and made a pot of turtle soup.
Gongzi Song, smelling the fragrance of turtle soup, said to the people around him: "My fingers have moved, there should be something delicious." ”
When Gongzi Song walked to the palace, Zheng Linggong didn't let him drink the soup, and mocked: "I have the final say on what you drink." ”
Gongzi Song was very angry and scared, so he entangled several other sons and murdered Zheng Linggong. Zheng Guo was also in chaos.
We can imagine that a group of honest people are holding ** and confronting a group of dishonest people, which is full of smoke.
The philosopher Friedrich Nietzsche once said, "If you fight with a dragon for too long, you become a dragon yourself." Stare into the abyss for too long, and the abyss will stare back. ”There are many good people in the world, and there are many honest people, and those who are in trouble can be helped, and everyone will deal with difficult things. ButHonest people suffer too much, so they lose the label of "honest", and naturally go to the "evil" side. Ask yourself, are you willing to live in a vicious world? If not, it shows your humanity and good intentions, and you also need to curb the evil thoughts in your heart for a long time.
It has been said, "The ugliest thing in human nature is not greed and arrogance, but embarrassment of others." Especially for the sake of one's own interests or the use of the power in one's hands, it is the evil in human nature to embarrass others everywhere. ”It is not difficult to be an honest person, it is not difficult to do a good deed, but the difficult thing is that the people you meet are all "people of the same kind".
Human nature needs a little brilliance, don't always shout "don't let honest people suffer", but secretly harm honest people.
Usually, give more affirmation to honest people, help them do more, pass on kindness, and life will be happier.
If you prick someone with a needle, your own hand will hurt.
If you love others with your heart, your heart will be warm.