What kind of parents a child meets is a probability event.
These lucky people have been raised in a greenhouse full of love since birth.
Although the financial situation may not be very wealthy, the physical and mental health of parents can give their children the greatest support and confidence to grow into generous and generous children.
Some children end up only being connected to their family of origin. The role of men is very important, and good character can be passed on for three generations.
Conversely, if the father has these two behaviors, the child often does not succeed and is very worrying.
01: Narcissistic personality that needs more stimulation.
Personality qualities can be changed. As long as a man loves his wife and children, he will make adjustments according to different situations.
They are able to understand their partner's grief and empathize with their children.
*。However, a man with a narcissistic personality is twisted and has no emotion, as if his heart is empty.
The ugliness of human nature is exposed, especially when it comes to associating with people close to you.
If the father is narcissistic, his child is unlikely to succeed. Even if you work hard and are not afraid of any difficulties, you cannot escape the difficulties of reality.
The father who is too narcissistic is a downright bad boy. From an early age, they attack the self-esteem of their children and destroy their personality in order to gain a so-called sense of superiority.
As children grow up, by the age of 50, they engage in extramarital affairs, alcoholism, and gambling in search of more social value and stimulation.
If your father had a narcissistic personality, your childhood life must have been difficult.
They need to put more effort into gaining a sense of security and even helping their parents to support themselves.
You don't have the strength to succeed. It would be great if you could live in such an environment, not affected by your father, physically and mentally healthy.
02: Strong vanity and can't control desires.
The more capable the father, the more low-key he knows.
There is no need to compare with others, let alone entrust your face and life to your children.
On the contrary, he was an incompetent father. I was too pretentious to control my desires, but I didn't have enough power.
Therefore, he can only constantly ask the children to satisfy his external pseudo-personality unconditionally.
Talk to your child and spend your money wherever you need it.
Such fathers will feel that they are raising their children only to be cared for and exploit them as a matter of course.
* (Hua Ming)'s father is very hypocritical and ostensibly pretends to be well-educated and good to his children and wife.
But in reality, he is vain and very good at disguise.
He is very stingy with his family, but he is willing to spend a lot of money to invite others to dinner.
Such a man cannot control his desires and is full of self-expression. When you have a little bit of success, share it with everyone.
Chen Yi is a salesperson who works hard to make her mother's life better.
But his father obviously had no money and bragged, so his relatives always asked the family to lend him money.
After Chen Yi refused, her father got angry and blamed her for not giving him face.
If it weren't for her father's drug abuse, Cheng Yi would have had the money to buy a house and would not have broken up with her boyfriend.
The boyfriend had no choice but to end the relationship because he realized that Chen Yi's father was an elder who could not communicate with him, and his life would be difficult after marrying Chen Yi.
Today, Chen Yi is almost 30 years old, has an unstable career, and has no courage to get married. Her inner inferiority complex stems from having a pompous and selfish father.
But she has no power to change, and no matter how she escapes, her blood ties must be maintained.
When fathers have these two behaviors, their children tend to fail and their families and careers are negatively affected.