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The children of the veterans of Bingxin.com once asked that many of his college classmates were divorced by their parents. What's going on? Look at our military community, but there are very few divorced families, why is that? The veterans of Bingxin.com have been thinking about this for a long time, and they will talk about the differences between military and local marriages.
*Quoted from the Internet by a veteran of Bingxin.com.
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First, the starting point of the purpose is different. Once a person becomes an adult, it is normal to pursue the opposite sex and desire to be in love. However, military personnel are different, they enter the army at a young age, and in a relatively closed management environment, they cannot be as free as local youth. Local young people can spend a lot of time talking to me, regardless of success or failure, deal with it first, get married or not, and then talk about it! And we young soldiers can't do this, they don't have time to fall in love, and most of them meet friends of the opposite sex through other people's introductions or other channels, and most of them go to get married. After all, the conditions did not allow it, so they had to be short and fast, in order to avoid the old difficulties, they saved falling in love.
The veterans of the Bingxin Network originated from the Internet**.
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Second, the emotional basis is different. Most military personnel marry first and fall in love later. Once they have decided, they will take their partner seriously and cherish each other's feelings very much. Military personnel are involved in military activities, intense and busy, and comparatively speaking, there is less time and energy to spend on their partner. They will love their partner doubly and compensate them with genuine affection. Local young people have been in love for a long time and can change the opposite sex at will, and many people feel too fresh, a little dull about their feelings, and even feel numb. Getting married, for young people in some places, is just a task. Parents urged, friends asked ......If you have to do it as a last resort, you can't talk about the emotional foundation, and you can't talk about cherishing your marriage.
*From the Internet = Bingxin Network Veteran.
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Third, the sense of responsibility is different. Bingxin.com veterans believe that this is the core difference between most military and non-military people in the treatment of marriage. As a retired soldier and a person who has come over, I personally feel that soldiers are very cautious about divorce, they say that marriage is not a child's play, and you can't give up easily! In particular, during the period of being in the army, his partner stayed alone in the empty house, raised the children alone, took care of his parents at home, paid a lot of energy, and endured a lot of hardship! Soldiers keep it in mind, coupled with a strong sense of responsibility, they will not give up their partners, even if their personalities are incompatible, they will not take the initiative to file for divorce. Local youth, who pay great attention to themselves, do not compromise, let alone accommodate. Even if you are married, you will be more casual with each other, and if you have conflicts in your personality, there will be contradictions in your life, which will erupt at any time. They will not tolerate it because of their family, even if they have children, they will divorce if they say divorce, and no one will be convinced. forgot his responsibilities and suffered the children of the two!
The veterans of the Bingxin Network originated from the Internet**.
In short, the view of the veterans of Bingxin.com is that the marriage between the military and the local government is indeed very different in an open society. Military marriages are mostly bitter and then sweet; Non-military marriage, partly sweet and then bitter! Which model do you agree with when you are of marriageable age? You are welcome to be in the comment area**, and the veterans of Bingxin.com are also welcome to sign up to participate in the military-local dating activities of Bingxin.com! Hotspot Engine Program