Hello, my name is Zhu Dabao!
Many people say that Wang Ziwen is too sensible after falling in love, cooking for each other, accommodating each other in everything, hoping that the other party can see their dedication to this relationship, but they didn't expect that what they got in exchange was the other party's cold words.
On the variety show, the teacher asked them to look at each other for three minutes, but Wu Yongen couldn't insist, his mind wandered from time to time, and there was no light in his eyes when he was in love. Do you think Wu Yongen really loves Wang Ziwen?
I think of what Schopenhauer said, that the person who says I love you must first have a complete self, and if there is no me, I love you there will be no more.
Sometimes it is too aggrieved, often not because of too little, but because it is too sensible, pays too much, and has no moderation. After Guo Jingjing and Huo Qigang got married, many people thought that she would marry her husband and children when she married into a wealthy family, and respected her husband.
But Guo Jingjing asked Huo Qigang to buy vegetables, carry vegetables, cook rice, cook soup, take care of the baby, do housework, and take on a man's responsibility for the family. Many people were surprised by Huo Qigang, saying that as a wealthy family, how did he cook rice after getting married?
But Huo Qigang said, Jingjing and I are just living, I don't know why everyone thinks it's strange.
The in-laws want to see their grandson, and Guo Jingjing has a request to wait until the child finishes his homework. I think that Guo Jingjing has long understood the difference between being sensible and understanding, and knowing how to be herself is more important than being sensible.
Actor Liu Mintao chose to end his seven-year marriage at the age of 37 and left the house with his daughter. She said that for the sake of her family, she sacrificed her life and ideals, but she still couldn't get respect and affirmation, she became a parasite in the eyes of others, and she was reduced to the point that she couldn't even afford an ice cream, and she lived a humble and pale life, so it was better to let go of herself and be myself.
The middle-aged rebellious Liu Mintao began to fight for his career, and made a strong comeback with the TV series "The Pretender" and "Langya Bang", and regained the initiative in his own hands.
Therefore, those radiant women are mostly ignorant people, she is not conformist, not humble and flattering, but happily lives the posture she wants. And many kind-hearted girls will become very sensible in their relationships, and will subconsciously blindly give and compromise to sacrifice themselves.
But cruel human nature is that the more sensible you are, the less distressed no one is. Just like Cai Kangyong said, tolerance will cause us not to be cared for, and not caring will make us lose the taste of life.
There are so many points in you that attract the other person, so why do you have to sacrifice yourself? The most important thing is to find who you really are and live for yourself. If you agree, please give it a thumbs up!May more girls not be too sensible and wronged themselves.