Some people may be curious, why is Ming Ming Chunyan so entangled with Zhou Bingkun, and claims that she "doesn't love" Zhou Bingkun?
Initially, when I saw Chunyan's behavior, I mistakenly thought that she really had deep feelings for Zhou Bingkun, but when she expressed her "code of love", I realized that she didn't really love Zhou Bingkun.
There is indeed a reason behind her "pestering" behavior.
What specific tasks did Chunyan complete for Zhou Bingkun?
One: Chunyan made a special trip to appease Zhou Bingkun's emotions.
While working in the bathroom, Chunyan learns that the murderer Tu Zhiqiang is the one they made the light character piece. The unit suggested that she go to the scene to check it out in person, but she firmly refused. However, she knows that Zhou Bingkun is a person who is easy to be bullied and has a gentle personality, and she usually will not refuse him.
Even if he feels extremely uncomfortable inside, he still chooses to go.
After getting off work, Chunyan walked into Zhou Bingkun's home, looking forward to his return, the real purpose of which was to give him spiritual comfort.
At this critical moment, Zhou's mother walked out with swill. Zhou Bingkun's mother had poor eyesight, and Zhou Bingkun immediately walked over to help. Chunyan did not show any dissatisfaction with this, but directly helped Zhou Bingkun carry the water to pour it out.
2: On behalf of yourself, you will provide Zhou's mother with eye drops provided by the unit's health.
The last time he met Chunyan, Zhou Bingkun revealed to Chunyan that Zhou's mother had become a stranger. Ever since her sister Zhou Rong ran away from home and eloped with someone else, Zhou's mother had been crying, her eyes had become blurry from crying, and she was eventually diagnosed with keratitis.
The speaker doesn't have an intention, but the listener does.
At that time, Zhou Bingkun just wanted to explain why Zhou's mother failed to identify Chunyan, but Chunyan was very concerned about Zhou's mother's eyesight problems.
She rushed into the health station of the unit, and in her own identity, obtained a bottle of eye drops, and specially sent it to the Zhou family.
In fact, she didn't think too much about it, she just wanted to put in some more effort in order to make Zhou Bingkun have a good impression of her and be willing to marry her.
Three: Threaten the director to make him work for Zhou Bingkun.
Zhou Bingkun once had nightmares because he saw the scene of Tu Zhiqiang's murder, and it was difficult to sleep at night, all he saw during the day was Tu Zhiqiang, and he often called him his partner Brother Qiangzi, which made it difficult for him to concentrate on his work, so he chose to resign.
However, in the process of formulating policies, each person only has one chance to assign work, and once this opportunity is lost, it means lost.
If Zhou Bingkun chooses to resign voluntarily, then he will face the risk of losing his job, there is no longer the possibility of regaining his job, and he needs to find a new way out.
When Chunyan brought eye drops, he asked her if he could suggest that he go to work in the bathroom.
Chunyan managed to contact her director, who had a chance to exceed one slot, despite the fact that the director's capacity was beyond the prescribed range and there were still three staff members who could not be arranged.
Chunyan is the star of the bathhouse, both men and women, they like to come here for pedicures, there are more people who come to her every day than her master, and she is the only woman in the bathhouse, which is very good.
Chunyan still has some influence in the bathroom, and her words carry a lot of weight.
She threatened the director, claiming that the person in his hands must be Zhou Bingkun, otherwise she would leave, which made the director very scared, so he immediately agreed to Chunyan's request and reserved the position for Zhou Bingkun.
It can be said that Chunyan has made great sacrifices for Zhou Bingkun, and her actions may actually anger others. No matter how good her performance is, if the director puts on a pair of small shoes for her, her future career may face great challenges.
In addition, this time she issued a threat to the director, so if there was one more time, would she choose this way?
In fact, it provided her with a back path that would have a profound impact on her future career.
However, for the sake of Zhou Bingkun, she really went all out without hesitation.
Her only goal is to impress Zhou Bingkun, make him gradually realize her strengths, change his opinion of her, and eventually marry her and spend his life together.
In order to make Zhou Bingkun think about himself wholeheartedly, Chunyan almost sacrificed her dignity.
She stood in front of her friends and said that the purpose of waiting for Zhou Bingkun to pick her up from work was to let everyone know that Zhou Bingkun had started a relationship with her.
On the way to Zhou Bingkun's work, she tried to stop him many times, hoping that he could send her home, the main purpose of this was to let the surrounding residents know that Zhou Bingkun was actually hers, and the two were in love.
She was like a ghost, wandering around Zhou Bingkun all the time, which made Zhou Bingkun feel unable to cope, and the distance between him and her gradually widened, and he even lost his will to marry her.
Chunyan is so entangled with Zhou Bingkun, does she really have deep feelings for Zhou Bingkun?
Absolutely not!
Since Chunyan doesn't have a good impression of Zhou Bingkun, why do she go to great lengths to marry him?
One: Both mothers longed for them to be a couple.
Zhou's mother has a deep love for Chunyan, and she regards her as her own daughter. Qiao's mother has deep feelings for Zhou Bingkun, and Zhou's mother and Qiao's mother are close friends. They often get together to share stories about their children, hoping that their relationship will be more intimate.
Qiao's mother cleverly conceived a strategy to let the two sisters Chunyan and Zhou Bingkun spend a night together one day, after which the two sisters would stay together and create a better future together.
Under the influence of her mother's prophecy, Chunyan knew every day that even if she didn't love Zhou Bingkun, she would choose to marry him. To make her life better, she will try to impress him.
Chunyan is always full of courage, she tends to take charge of her own destiny and never compromise with it.
If her mother really wanted her to be a partner with Zhou Bingkun, then she would not hesitate to try, which is why she continued to entangle later.
2: Zhou Bingkun has uniqueness.
In the Guangzi area, many families are not financially well-off, they rarely read, there are hardly too many books, and even if they do, they are only the knowledge in books.
However, Zhou Bingkun is different in that he follows his older brother and sister and reads a large number of books.
Whether you read or don't read, whether you read a few books or read a lot, they all behave very differently, both in words and in deeds.
Zhou Bingkun never has fierce arguments with people, nor does he have quarrels with people, he prefers to use logic to convince others.
Chunyan's social circle is relatively large, so there are relatively many people to meet. Although Chunyan's appearance is not bad and she is loved by everyone, she always feels good and firmly believes that she is worthy of herself only if she finds a man who is different.
Among them, Zhou Bingkun is different in that he was born in a family of workers, not only working in a wood factory, but also has a certain cultural accomplishment, and the match with Chunyan is also quite perfect.
This is mainly because I have a small social circle, a limited number of people I meet, and a relatively narrow field of vision, so I can only look for clues from the people around me.
Three: Zhou Bingkun's appearance is very attractive.
Chunyan is not outstanding in appearance, she is full of arrogance in her heart, and she also tends to look for a partner with a similar personality to herself.
Chunyan has a good relationship with National Day and catch-up, but in Chunyan's view, the appearance of National Day is like a square and not very attractive, while the nose of catch-up is too big and looks very anxious, looking old and full of wrinkles.
However, Zhou Bingkun is different, their family's genes are very superior, his parents are very handsome, he inherited both the simplicity and kindness of his parents, and their appearance, which makes people fall in love with it at a glance.
The most critical point is that Zhou Bingkun has a weak personality and is easy to be bullied. Chunyan, on the other hand, is a strong person who prefers to control her home turf. Chunyan wants to be with Zhou Bingkun, and their relationship is very complementary, which is another reason why Chunyan wants to marry Zhou Bingkun.
To sum up, the people Chunyan likes usually have the following criteria: outstanding appearance, stable career, and a certain knowledge and cultural background, preferably with some distinctive traits.
She told Zhou Bingkun this sentence directly, and the person she loved was exactly like this. Although it was described in the image of Zhou Bingkun at the time, it also reflected her true feelings deep down.
According to this criterion, if someone performs better than Zhou Bingkun, then Chunyan will definitely quickly "transfer feelings", which is an indisputable fact.
Final stage. Later, Chunyan met Debao at Zhou Bingkun's home, and she fell in love with him at first sight and started a "design" relationship with him.
If Chunyan really has a good impression of Zhou Bingkun, why did she change so quickly?
However, due to her limited experience, narrow social circle, very limited options, and her mother's constant nagging around her, Zhou Bingkun is undoubtedly the best of all the options.
Debao is an employee of Zhou Bingkun's soy sauce factory, and the two met because they worked together. Later, at the Zhou family's party, Chunyan met her and made her fall in love at first sight, which led to the later design.
Obviously, deep down in Chunyan's heart, she really doesn't like Zhou Bingkun very much. In her concept, Zhou Bingkun is like a not-so-bad seed among bad seeds.
When true love came, she clung to it without hesitation.
Chunyan is a woman who dares to love and hate, and in this environment, I especially appreciate her personality.