Hundred Families Help Program My father left, I went home to see my stepmother, gave her 2000, and the next day, her son called me home for dinner, and my stepmother is also a mother, and we must be kind to those who love us. Filial piety should act early and do not leave any regrets in life.
The past is vivid, and memories come flooding back to me.
When I was three years old, my biological mother died, leaving me and my father to live together. My father took care of me wholeheartedly, but he always had a hard time taking care of everything in the house, especially the crops. My grandmother was partial to the three sons of my uncle's family, but she was indifferent to my father's plight and me, and my father could not do anything about my grandmother.
My grandmother felt sorry for me and took me back to her house to take care of me, but my aunt regarded me as a thorn in the side and a thorn in the flesh. My grandmother could only use the money from the sale of the pigs to "appease" my aunt and maintain the family's temporary peace.
In the small mountain village of the early 80s, every family lived in poverty, and meat could only be tasted at festivals. My grandmother boiled lard, and she could only leave the lard residue for me to eat.
However, my aunt always crossed her waist and accused her grandmother of partiality, believing that she only cared about loving her granddaughter and ignoring her grandson. Grandma was full of grievances and had to endure it silently.
My aunt was tough and left no room for it, and even though my grandmother had raised my aunt's cousin until she was six years old, my aunt still accused my grandmother of being biased. People in the village generally commented that my aunt was a stubborn woman.
My uncle was honest and kept his roots, and worked silently, but he failed to play a role in the family, and all the family affairs were handled by my aunt.
In order to avoid the conflict between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the grandmother endured silently, and even gave the four piglets just born to the sow to the aunt to feed, and "bribed" the aunt again and again.
When I was five years old, my aunt's ** made the situation worse, and my father had to take me home. When I was seven years old, my father brought back a stepmother and an older brother who was three years older.
The arrival of my stepmother and her son completely changed the trajectory of my life. Although my brother and I are not related by blood, he took the initiative to take on all the household chores in the house, including laundry, cooking, feeding poultry, carrying water and vegetables, herding cattle, etc.
In poor households, children tend to be in charge of the household at an early age. My brother has been cooking on his own since he was seven years old, and because of his lack of height, he often has to use a stool to make it taller. However, since my brother came to my house, I only had to help him and he took care of most of the household chores for me.
The stepmother accompanies the father wholeheartedly and bears the hard life together. Their husbands and wives follow them, and they go out early and return late every day, and they are very busy. Our new family of four people is unusually united, and the days are getting better and better with each passing day, which is enviable.
I willingly called my stepmother "Mommy", and my brother voluntarily called my father "Daddy". Our parents always treated us equally, which made us feel a warm family atmosphere at home.
I grew up in a family of four, my stepmother gave me warm maternal love, and my father brought warm fatherly love to my brother. As a family composed of unrelated blood relations, our affection for each other has long surpassed the shackles of blood.
However, I deeply regret that my grandmother passed away on the way to my filial piety. At my grandmother's funeral, I couldn't cry and my heart was like a knife.
Life is like the wind, sometimes calm, sometimes furious. Just when I was able to do my filial piety, my father also fell ill. During the days when he was in bed, my stepmother and I took turns taking care of him, while my brother did not hesitate to pay my father's ** fee.
My brother said to me, "The grace of nurturing is better than heaven, and filial piety comes first." My financial situation is better than yours, and I will bear the ** fee, so you don't have to fight. Give me a chance to give back to my father. ”
I was touched by my brother's gratitude.
Life is full of joys and sorrows, just as the moon is cloudy and sunny. My father finally said goodbye to the world, but he left with a smile and no regrets in life.
At the end of his life, my father left the property and property to my stepmother, and I have no objection. He told me to be kind to my stepmother and live in harmony with my brother.
Although I lost my biological parents, I still have my mother's family, and my stepmother and brother are my family.
I made an effort to find time to go home to my stepmother, chat with her, and have dinner with her. The elderly, like children, are afraid of loneliness, so we should often go home to see them and spend more time with them.
The stepmother did not adjust to city life and insisted on staying in her hometown, because it was full of memories of her and her father. My brother has a successful career, and he has built one set after another at home. Compared to him, I am ashamed that I have just bought a house and have not been able to renovate it.
Last weekend, I took my children back to my hometown to visit my stepmother. She was so happy that she put almost all the good food on the table. The more we ate, the happier she became.
Before leaving, my stepmother gave me some eggs, vegetables, and a chicken that had been killed. She does this every time, giving us everything that is good.
I quietly put 2,000 yuan in the TV cabinet because I knew she wouldn't accept it. Every time I call ** to tell her afterwards, but she always nags on the other end of the ** and makes me feel happy.
The next day, my brother invited my family to his house for dinner, and my sister-in-law handed me a bank card and said, "Little sister, there are 300,000 yuan in the card, hurry up and decorate the house, let the children go to school in the city, their education is more important than anything else." ”
As soon as the sister-in-law's conversation ended, the brother hurriedly answered: "Little sister, don't shirk if I give you money." But your sister-in-law gives you money, you have to accept it, otherwise she will be unhappy. We are a family, and we should share happiness and hardships together. Only in this way can we live a good life with peace of mind, and my father can also find peace under the nine springs. ”
When I heard this, I couldn't help but cry.
I accepted 300,000 yuan from my brother and sister-in-law, and my husband took the initiative to sign an IOU for them. However, my sister-in-law tore the IOU to shreds in front of us, which made me cry again.
It really took a lot of effort to meet such a good stepmother, brother and sister-in-law. I am determined to cherish this hard-won family affection and never let any regrets be left in my life.