Daughter, when you read this letter, you must have too many puzzles when you are young. After all, you're still so young, just starting a toddler. But after much thought, Dad finally mustered up the courage to decide to write down the bits and pieces of our family's growing up together as gifts for you and your brother.
Looking back in time, your daughter is six years old, starting from your mother's pregnancy with you, all the way to today, our family has experienced a lot of ups and downs, I still remember that when my mother was just pregnant with you, because of low progesterone, I had an injection in the hospital for half a month, and my mother's stomach was full of needle holes at that time. Thankfully, you quickly got down to work in your mother's belly. Give mom and dad a chance to start preparing for you.
2018 was the luckiest year for Mom and Dad, when every family returned to their hometown to celebrate the Spring Festival, Mom and Dad and grandparents spent a year in a cold rental house. But because we are looking forward to your arrival, our family is beaming.
On the fourth day of the Lunar New Year, you tossed in your mother's belly for seventeen hours. Until the moment before you were born, you scared your father. At the moment of your birth that day, the doctor came out and said to the father: "At present, the child's mother has opened ten fingers, and the amniotic fluid has been drained to prevent the child from suffocating inside. At that moment, my father was frightened, when my father hurriedly signed the consent form for surgery, and the doctor entered the delivery room, I suddenly heard a cry of "wow", and then the doctor came out and said: "I have given birth, it is a baby girl, five pounds and eight taels." "Hearing the doctor's words, Dad was overjoyed, and Grandparents were also overjoyed, and you tossed us all that day.
Become a part of our family as you join our family. Our family has changed dramatically. When you were just born. Mom and Dad don't understand anything. Because your mother doesn't know how to take care of you, she makes your ass red and cry sadly;Dad almost cried because he wouldn't change your diapers. To this day, my mother often jokes about me changing your diaper for the first time.
Daughter, you know what?Because of your arrival, you have given too many firsts to Mom and Dad, and for the first time, Mom and Dad have transformed from young men and women to a father and mother overnight. The first time, I bathed you with only more than five pounds, but my mother didn't dare at that time, but my father mustered up the courage to bathe you carefully. For the first time. Because you're full and spitting up, you know on the Internet that babies are going to burp when they're full. The first time, because you cried inexplicably at night, I checked the information on the Internet and found out that the baby would have colic. Over the years, Mom and Dad have learned how Xi take care of you. There are many firsts, and in the process of learning Xi, parents have the joy of learning and the sadness of failure. Although Mom and Dad stumbled along the way, they still helped me through.
Daughter, on Thanksgiving Day, you were holding a card made by the kindergarten that read: Mom and Dad, Happy Thanksgiving!Write your name underneath: Xinyi. This name is difficult to write, and my parents hesitated repeatedly when choosing a name, but in the end I still gave you such a name, "Xin" is a warm feeling;"Yi" is to hope that you will always be happy. Even though it's harder to write, you wrote it when you were six years old, and you're awesome, daughter!
Daughter, thank you for the joy and happiness you have brought to the family over the years. But over the years, Mom and Dad are not competent enough, many times they don't have enough patience, and they also have their own bad temper. Dad sometimes looks at some of your shortcomings and sees that you are a copy of Mom and Dad, and Dad has a deep reflection on this. Mom and Dad have no experience in parenting, and many of the ways are hearsay, or passed down by grandfather, grandmother, grandfather, and grandmother, and there is no difference between good and bad, so they will instill it in you.
After this period of learning Xi, Dad feels very guilty when he looks back on the years he has grown up with you, Mom and Dad are not a qualified parent, but Dad will continue to Xi and will accompany you to spend a happy first stage of life. In the future, we will grow up together, Dad will record it, and when you grow your hair and have your own family and children, see if our experience of growing up together can give you some inspiration.