Introduction: As a parent, love for your children is unconditional, but if you spoil them excessively, it will backfire. Parents are often concerned about their children's growth, for fear of missing out on their growing moments. However, some parents' overprotection has had a negative impact on their children. Recently, "My Family Zihan" has become a hot stalk on the Internet, causing many discussions and doubts among netizens and teachers.
Over-pampering and protecting children can lead them to become "giant babies", losing the ability to live independently and the courage to face difficulties. Parents often pave the way for their children to grow up "without disaster" and do not want to see them being bullied and frustrated, but doing so will only develop children's bad Xi and fail to adapt to social changes and face future challenges.
However, it is worth noting that everyone experiences difficulties and setbacks in their growth. The so-called smooth sailing growth is just a myth, not a reality. If parents magnify every small frustration and question the teacher in an unreasonable way, it will not only cause the teacher's disgust, but also make it difficult for the child to learn from the growth experience.
Recently, "My Family Zihan" has become a hot Internet meme. This name is very common in many schools, especially in some well-known universities. However, a seemingly ordinary name has become the focus of everyone's discussion because of the performance of a parent. Zihan's mother questioned the teacher in the parent group why Zihan was bitten by mosquitoes, but the other children were not. This ridiculous behavior has aroused strong disgust and ridicule among netizens.
In response to this incident, netizens have created various jokes about "My Family Zihan", ridiculing Zihan's mother's unreasonable requirements for the teacher. For example, "Teacher, why doesn't my family have an object?" and gave an explanation that did not fit the reality. This absurdity has instead made people see the absurdity of parental overprotection. But in the laughter, it also reflects the helplessness and pressure of teachers in the face of this situation.
For kindergarten teachers, many parents are too demanding and unrealistic. Some parents even think that teachers should be like babysitters, taking care of every aspect of their children. However, the job of a kindergarten teacher is not only to take care of the basic needs of children, but also to complete educational tasks. They are not a substitute for parents and cannot take on too much responsibility.
When parents interfere too much in students' lives and Xi, it will cause great trouble to teachers and may also lead to conflicts between parents and teachers. Parents need to understand that kindergarten teachers have their own job responsibilities and life needs, and cannot spend all their time taking care of their children. If parents have to ask the teacher everything about their child's food, drink, and Lazar, it will be difficult for the parent to win the teacher's favor.
When faced with parents' doubts, kindergarten teachers can explain their actions by retaining relevant evidence, rather than blindly accepting parents' accusations. Teachers should maintain a stable mood, be full of love and optimism about the cause of education, and establish a friendly relationship with students. Only in this way can teachers retain a certain authority in the hearts of parents and not be treated as "free babysitters", but as educators who are respected and trusted.
At the same time, teachers also need to pay attention to their words and deeds, establish a good personal image, maintain a moderate distance from students, and refrain from abusing their power or inflicting corporal punishment on students. Only by doing so can teachers earn the respect and trust of their parents and lay the foundation for their careers.
Conclusion: Parental protection and care are essential for a child's development. However, overprotection and interference can deprive children of independence and opportunities for growth. Parents need to reflect on their own behavior and learn Xi more advanced ways of education to better nurture their children. Teachers also need to maintain a stable mood in the face of parents' questions and demands, resolve conflicts through reasonable explanations and behaviors, and create a conducive Xi learning environment for students. Only when parents and teachers can work together to care for children's growth can children get better education and development.