When people have money, they have courage and confidence. When they meet someone they like, they dare to pursue it boldly, and they don't have to worry about being embarrassed in front of the person they like because they don't have money. If you want to start a business, you can invest boldly, taste the benefits of money, and be more willing to spend time and effort to accumulate more wealth.
Although people often say that money is a bastard and a worldly thing, if there is a lack of money in life, it will be difficult to move an inch, and the basic material life will not be guaranteed, let alone enjoy happiness and manage feelings.
Although money is important, not all people have the ability to harness it, and some people work hard all their lives and reach old age penniless;Some young people started to work very early, and the salary level is not bad, they have worked for more than ten years, they can't afford to buy a house or a car, and they don't even have savings.
Money is very important in this life, but if money does not bring happiness and joy, but endless troubles, then it is likely that the way to deal with money is wrong. In order for money to bring more happiness, we need to do two things:
There is a point in the book "Dog Money": the income level of every ordinary person is actually the same, the difference is the way to sort out money, which has become a watershed between the poor and the rich.
After the poor get money, they only know how to blindly satisfy their material desires, how much they earn, and how much they spend. They rarely plan for the future and rarely think about the functional allocation of money. Wealthy people, on the other hand, divide their money into several parts and let each part of the money play a different role according to their personal needs.
In "Dog Money," GIA's parents have a poor mindset towards money, and they buy a house with a loan and are under huge debt pressure. The first thing they do every day when they open their eyes is to sigh over their inability to pay their debts, buy a house, but have no mood and become slaves to money.
It wasn't until I experienced something that I understood the crux of my unhappiness and, with the advice of experts, distributed my income reasonably. I also used the income distribution method in the book to distribute my own money, and found that the happiness brought by money is increasing.
Roughly as follows: 50% of the income is used to raise "geese", so that money generates money, and ensures the rolling appreciation of wealth;
Set aside 10% of your income as dream savings** to satisfy your material desires that you want but can't have for the time being.
20% of the income is used to pay off debts to ensure a monthly reduction in total debt;
Use the remaining money to cover your daily expenses and support your daily life.
Perhaps some people will despise such distributions, especially for people with low incomes and huge debts, this method is just a drop in the bucket for the time being, but in the long run, it will definitely save people from the troubles that money brings.
What kind of person can have wealth and derive great happiness from it?
The answer may be strange, but it will not be those who easily obtain ill-gotten gains, happiness is related to material things, but in pursuit of happiness, without the truth, goodness, beauty, and wealth of human beings, there will be no happiness.
Only virtue and cultivation can make oneself worthy of wealth, not only can you easily harvest wealth, but it is easier to reap happiness because of wealth.
Here's an example from the book Puppy Money:
A happy life is like a delicious doughnut, the doughnut itself represents material things, which can only be found with money, and at the same time, do not ignore the hole in the middle of the doughnut, which represents a person's heart.
People who are kind and beautiful at heart are more likely to have a good life than people who are ** at heart.
is like the comparison in "The Wrong Wedding Car and Wedding Man", the seventh prince and Li Yuhu are both satisfied and happy, thinking that the family is complete and happy, and the sweetheart can be happy, which is a great happiness;But for Mrs. Qi's grandson Ke Shizhang, as long as Mrs. Qi is happy and has wealth, she can completely guarantee that the rest of her life is worry-free.
It's a pity that being too obsessed with money, so many sins, don't end well.
In real life, there is no shortage of people who think that there is a shortcut to making money and want to accumulate wealth quickly, but they are the furthest away from money.
Money is important, as the saying goes, with money, you can do what you want better, otherwise, everything is just a dream.
However, more important than money is learning to manage your income wisely and make yourself worthy of wealth.