Love is like a floating and rocking car. Sometimes I feel like I'm standing at the pole of excitement, but I didn't expect to fall to the ground hard in the next second, and see the reality that the other person doesn't love.
If only there were specific algorithmic answers such as addition, subtraction, multiplication and division, you don't have to worry about yourself, and you don't always have to stand outside the distance between hearts and guess whether the other person still loves you.
In fact, there are traces of whether feelings exist or disappear. If a relationship is really going to end, there are often such signs, and no one can fool themselves.
First, the focus of life has shifted.
When the relationship cannot be saved, you will find that the change of a person's heart has begun from his center. When he loves you, he will turn around and you are the center of his growing planet;But if he doesn't love, his life will be colorful, and all this, you don't know.
Like the readers I shared with Lily, I suddenly found out that my husband had changed his mind.
I don't know when it started, and the other party's entertainment has become commonplace. When I got home, I locked myself in my study, so it was hard to talk to Lily for 5 minutes.
Reminded by a friend, Lily began to observe her husband's whereabouts and pay attention to every detail of his life, only to find that the other party had two love movie tickets in his jacket pocket, which had been used, and it was not she who accompanied her husband to the movies.
When a person's focus in life is no longer on their family, no longer thinking about how to better manage their life, and they move elsewhere, it is clear that the other person has changed their mind.
Second, the emotional response becomes apathetic.
There is a clear difference between loving and not loving. If a man no longer loves you, his emotional response will become very cold. No matter what happens to you, he will choose to be indifferent, no longer worried, no longer caring.
I remembered the TV series "Deep Rain" that I used to watch. At the beginning, I was thinking about why Shuhuan was Lu Ping's official competition. When Lu Ping celebrated his birthday, He Shuhuan's sense of ownership was particularly strong. Obviously, he had a good impression of Rupin, which happens to be true. Even if Duffy liked the rupee, he didn't dare to chase it.
It wasn't until He Shuhuan appeared around Yiping that Duffy knew that Shuhuan's mind was on Yiping, and tried to ask Shuhuan if she could pursue Lu Ping. Shuhuan's answer was very encouraging, and the attitude of loving or not loving in an instant was obvious.
No man wants to pursue a woman he likes with other men unless he doesn't love him.
If a man becomes indifferent and indifferent to all your emotional reactions, there is no doubt that you are not the person he really values in his heart.
Third, there is no expectation of each other's future.
To love someone is to give each other more opportunities to move towards the future together.
You can see that if a man really has you in his heart, he may give you money to keep, take you home to meet your parents, try to propose to you, do a lot of things that imply that he can go with you.
On the contrary, when a man does not have you in his heart, he will refuse to have too much intersection with you.
He won't accept the gifts you give him and doesn't want to owe you too much because he doesn't have much time and ideas to reciprocate the love you give. What he wants is freedom without you.
If a man doesn't love you, he will find an excuse to avoid your proposal as a woman. Even though he is of marriage age, he will still say that he is not ready, so he cannot give you a desired future.
Such a man may not leave you, but he will most likely use you as a spare tire. What you get from Him is not unwavering love, but an insecure relationship.