The ancients said: "Water flows through a long stream, and air gathers." ”
A place with good feng shui, with high mountains and flowing water, also condenses steaming mist, implying the hidden dragon and crouching tiger.
Over time, we have gained a deeper understanding of Feng Shui's interpretation.
There is a way, the situation changes with the heart.
Whether feng shui is good or not, the key is whether the person's realm is high or not, and whether the soul hides beauty.
If you want your family to have the best Feng Shui, you must look for beauty with your heart and refuse to let ugly things into your home.
Close the following doors, there will be harmony at home, peace outside the home, and everything will be fine.
Close the "soundproof door" and keep your ears out of the window.
Ignore the things outside the window, and only read the books of the sages with one heart", if people have such a pattern, they can make achievements.
If a person always listens to the noise outside, but there is no harmonious sound at home, over time, he will be sow discord by outsiders, and be discorded by the chaos of the outside world, but he will lose his enthusiasm for his relatives.
Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty established a country with unprecedented dignity, but his small family was not satisfactory.
According to the rules of the royal family, Liu Ju was appointed as the crown prince very early.
In his later years, Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty believed in some charlatan warlocks, and he was still convinced of the superstition of demagogy.
The minister Jiang Chong and Liu Ju had a holiday, and Jiang Chong held a grudge, so he told Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty: "There is Gu Qi in the palace. ”
Under the instructions of Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty, Jiang Chong rushed into Liu Ju's house, searched vigorously, and skillfully laid down some puppets.
Liu Ju was very worried that Emperor Wu of Han, who was obsessed with Gu arts, would be ruthless to him, so he immediately organized a group of soldiers to protect himself.
Jiang Chong took the opportunity to tell Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty: "Liu Ju not only used Gu techniques to harm people, but also raised troops to rebel.
Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty sent an envoy to contact Liu Ju, and the envoy and Liu Ju also had a holiday"The prince has become a prince, and he wants to behead the ministers, but the ministers flee back. ”
In the end, Liu was rounded up and then hanged. Liu Ju's mother and mother's family were wiped out.
After many years, Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty found that he had been deceived by Jiang Chong, burst into tears, and established the Platform of Wangsi.
When a family is good, there are a lot of people who can't see you. Be careful.
Outsiders know that the key to dismantling a family is to "disintegrate from within". As long as the people in the family have the action of countering in the nest, then outsiders can sit on the mountain and watch the tiger fight, and there is still a chance to take advantage of it.
In the "Chinese", it is said: "Brothers are slanderous, insulting people." ”Parents, children, siblings, even if they hear words that sow discord, should think in one place and resist those who create gossip.
Ask yourself, who has benefited the most from the loss of harmony in the family and the trust of outsiders? When you figure it out, you have the answer in your heart.
Close the "mouth door", and the ugliness of the family cannot be publicized.
If the mouth is not firm, it is not good to do things. If a person speaks casually, he always pours bitter water on outsiders, but he is mysterious to his family, and it will be difficult to handle the affairs of the family.
Writer Feng Menglong wrote a story.
There is a Zhang Lisheng in Yunnan, who is very selfish. His father often persuaded him to take care of his family more and not to take all the benefits alone.
Zhang Lisheng didn't listen to his father's words, but defended: "My father has a concubine and a young son, and they have to be cheap in the end." I only have what is in front of me, and what he has in it, how much can I get? ”
He believes that the father loves his younger brother and is not good for himself, and he should further strive for benefits from the extended family.
After his father passed away, Zhang Lisheng went to the yamen to sue in order to monopolize the property of his ancestors, and bought off the ** in the yamen.
* The lion opens his mouth widely, and the more he wants, the more he wants. In the end, with all kinds of bribes, the official was dismissed and went home.
Zhang Lisheng is, stealing chickens does not make rice.
Why outsiders can take possession of your family's things, seize your handle, and make you very uncomfortable, the key is that you yourself tell the privacy of your family.
When chatting, you should pay attention to the ears on the wall; What's more, it's a big fanfare to outsiders about the ugliness of the family?
When family gets along, you should say warm words, communicate more, and fight less. If there is something that cannot be explained, calm down for a while and do not easily ask outsiders to intervene.
In front of outsiders, you need to say that your family is very good, and outsiders know that your family is very kind, so they will not make waves.
In any family, there are contradictions, but they are all trivial. Say a few words, take the initiative to take a step, and be safe. After all, the blood relationship is there, and the favor can still be retained.
Close the "wealth door" so that the fertilizer and water do not flow into the fields of outsiders.
In any family, having money is good feng shui. Even if it is an elegant family, without money, it will be miserable.
Life has to pass, three meals a day cost money, and you can't live in a vacuum.
How to make money? As long as everyone is not lazy, there will always be income. Making money is important, and the way you spend it is even more important.
A family with a large pattern can always "open source and reduce expenditure". On deposits, make a big fuss.
Fan Zhongyan of the Song Dynasty was born poor, and later became an official and began to develop, so he was ready to build a new house.
Once, when he went to Suzhou, he saw a very beautiful place and a nice house, and he was ready to buy it.
Before buying a house, he asked someone to look at the feng shui of the house.
People said: "This house is the place where the minister is leaving." ”
Fan Zhongyan thought to himself that his family was good enough, and he should make everyone in the family better. So, he converted the house into a school for future generations to study.
Sure enough, the descendants of the Fan family have been undefeated for eight hundred years. All four sons became officials.
He also established Fan's Yizhuang to help the people of his family, and the money was used to the extreme.
In the Ming Dynasty, his descendant Fan Wencong made a mistake and was interrogated by Zhu Yuanzhang.
Zhu Yuanzhang remembered the famous sentence "The worries of the world first, and the joy of the world after the world", so he said: "You are the descendant of Fan Zhongyan, and you can avoid death five times." ”
As the saying goes: "The Ze of the Gentleman, the Fifth Emperor of Grace." ”Good steel is used on the blade, and real gold is spent at the key point. If your family plans the use of money, and the money becomes capital, it becomes a good deed, and it is not obtained by inconsequential outsiders, and you can continue to get rich.
The law of "no more than three generations of wealth" is mostly because there is a generation of people who spend too much money, and they are not in place to close the door of wealth, and they are targeted by vicious outsiders.
The feng shui of the family is not only the house located between the green mountains and green waters, in the high-end community, but also the wealth of the human heart, the power of harmony, and the vision of life.
If you find that your family has gone bad, then unite your family and take care of the houseKeep the wealth, keep the harmony, and pay attention to the tone.
When everyone gets a little better, the family style goes up a big step.