"Greed is **, too much desire is pain, contentment is happiness! ”
If you want too much and you don't have enough to get it, you're going to get stuck and miserable. Some people use illegal means to commit robbery.
A contented person knows how to enjoy life within his power and does not force himself to look up to what he can do. When your worries are reduced, you will naturally find more joy.
Satisfied people know how to enjoy the process.
The outcome of many things is uncertain. It depends on the evolution of the process. If small aspects of the process change, the results will be different.
Blindly pursuing the so-called perfect result is pointless and even counterproductive. It's best to enjoy the good moments in the process, live in the moment, and pave the way for a positive outcome.
Satisfied people are not influenced by the opinions of others.
Many people are easily influenced by other people's opinions and reluctantly accept anything that contradicts their own.
However, a lot of things aren't black and white. 10,000 people may have 10,000 different ideas. Even if you think so, you are reluctantly receptive to other people's ideas. At the end of the day, it's still you who don't feel well.
Satisfied people don't compare.
What others have, you must have. You must have what others don't have. ”
If familiar with similar words, I can't tell you how many people have it. I'm confused by the word.
What someone else has may not be right for you, so you don't have to.
If others don't have it, it's up to you to see if you need it. If it makes practical sense to you, do it to the best of your ability, and if you can't do it for the time being, then improve yourself until you can really do it, and work hard.
His strength is not commensurate with what he has. No matter how hard I tried to hold it in my hand, I couldn't hold it.
Satisfied people pay less attention to others.
Everyone is an individual and has their own life. It's up to you to decide how your life goes.
When others are in trouble, do your best and give appropriate help. However, if your parents are grumpy, don't get involved.
You live for your own comfort, not to give advice to others.
Satisfied people do things because they want to do them.
You've probably done a lot of things you've been forced to do in your life.
I want to study computers, but I have to study medicine. First of all, you want to start a business, but you have to go on a blind date, get married, have children, ......
When you are forced to do something, there is psychological resistance and it is difficult to devote yourself to it.
You will only feel satisfied when you spontaneously want to do something.
Satisfied people cherish what they have.
Every step we take is the result of what we've done so far.
Just like I type now, it's all about recognizing pinyin characters such as a, o, and e, and gradually developing to be able to read each character one by one.
Satisfied people cherish what they have, use it to learn new knowledge and skills, get what they want within their means, and enjoy the satisfaction it brings. I know.
Satisfied people know how to ** themselves.
People who are easily satisfied usually have goals that are not too far away. Accept the existing problem and solve it.
They know that the fewer problems there are, the fewer worries they have. Even if you've only solved the tip of the iceberg, you'll feel content because it's much better than doing nothing.
Many people always focus on what they don't have and ignore what they have, so they are always dissatisfied and always try to distance themselves.
In fact, what we have is the most valuable wealth, and it is also the confidence to fight for other things.
A person who is content is always happy. May we all cherish what we have, not be arrogant, not impulsive, and fill our lives with what we have.