Men's performance before and after marriage is very different, men may care about this woman before marriage, and do everything possible to please this woman, but once they get married, they will ignore this woman, so what satisfaction does a woman want to get most after marriage? Which men does a woman call to? Which man does a woman prefer the most? Let's take a look!
Why, is there a huge contrast between women before and after marriage? Quite simply, their expectations were not fulfilled; Their demands were not met. This is something they never expected. Men also feel aggrieved and have given women the most love - even, all income. Women still complain all day long, why is this? Then again, it's not that women are greedy. Rather, men don't understand.
Why, is there a huge contrast between women before and after marriage?
What satisfaction do married women want most?
1. A sense of security.
Fan Ye said that he felt very safe by Li Chen's side. Even a woman with a strong heart is so dependent on a sense of security. Not to mention, what about others. The sense of security is not about how big a house or how much money you have. Rather, with you, she doesn't worry about anything, she doesn't fear anything.
Moreover, we have the courage and confidence to support each other and make progress together. This is more effective than saying beautiful words. It's like the safest protection.
2. A sense of belonging.
What is a sense of belonging? There is a home, there is a man who loves her and she loves. This is definitely hard to find. Some couples are inseparable. There are couples who are married but do not love each other.
There are so many things wrong in the world. The love between men and women in the world is absolutely life and death. The sense of belonging, which is the emotional attachment that only people who truly love each other. But more men don't even return home after marriage.
There is a home, there is a man who loves her and she loves.
3. Sense of presence.
Sense of existence, now many people are working hard in the circle of friends. They are afraid that they will be forgotten by their friends. Even if you're not revolving around her. Even if she's not the focus of your life. She just wants you to see her and hear her voice.
Men didn't take all this to heart. Moreover, I think this kind of wife is very noisy and annoying. You say, can she be satisfied? If you ignore her, how can she be happy?
4. Happiness.
Although, love and lust and affection are not completely opposites. But a marriage without desire always has no more and no less. Chinese women are more traditional and do not directly talk about their sexual desires. But it doesn't matter at all, not even a few times a month - basically, unlikely. Therefore, the right sense of well-being can enhance the relationship between husband and wife. At the same time, it also allows women to get the satisfaction of love. Otherwise, there will be a hidden crisis.
To love your wife, satisfy her as much as you can. And vice versa, ...... the same
Which men do women call to.
Women make up models of male ideals – everyone has their favorite type of the opposite sex, both male and female, and the difference lies in the depth of prejudices; Comparatively speaking, women, or, more accurately, those who prefer fiction, have deeper preconceptions; This kind of woman likes to fictionalize a male god in her mind and the perfect object of her heart according to her own preferences.
Women make up models of male ideals.
This man is mainly based on the male stars and male protagonists in films, television and literary works, and then supplements and builds the details according to his own subjective standards and preferences, and synthesizes the image of an ideal man as his standard for love and mate selection.
Because this fiction is deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, so that it controls women to a certain extent, forming deep-rooted stereotypes, for example, many women are particularly picky when choosing a mate, which stems from this preconception, they measure the real man standing in front of them according to their own fictional man, if the two match is very low, women have no "feeling".
Otherwise, the eyes will shine; Because fiction is often close to perfection, women are likely to be disappointed, some of them will return to reality, while others will choose to stick to "principles", and the so-called "principles" are nothing more than sticking to their own fiction.
Women love fictional romantic scenes – in fictional situations, women are the director first, and the female number one second.
Women love fictional romantic scenes – in fictional scenarios, women are first and foremost directors.
In the pre-designed cool stage background, the personable male protagonist appears, and the form of his appearance, including time and place, the romantic actions and emotional lines of the male protagonist's affectionate confession, and the arrogant heroine's attitude towards the male protagonist and the way of acceptance, are all unfolded one by one according to the fictional script; Some of these fictions are based on their own imaginations, some are based on literary works, film and television works, or bo......thThroughout the fictional process, the woman is intoxicated, deeply immersed in it, and has a slightly drunk feeling.
This kind of fictional scene has a certain obscene or fantasy nature, and some women have been in this fictional state for a long time, and they are trapped in it and cannot extricate themselves, forming deep prejudices, and even linking with reality.
In some special cases, some women's wedding photos and weddings will be designed based on their previous fictions to fulfill their long-cherished wishes.
So, when is a woman's heartbeat? It often depends on how well reality and fiction match – a man appears, and this man makes a woman feel familiar, even fall in love at first sight, and fall in love at first sight.
It shows that this man fits the woman's imaginary ideal man template, and the higher the degree of match, the more attractive the woman is; If in the subsequent contact and communication, the man's voice, eyes, movements, and demeanor are highly consistent with the woman's inner fiction, then the woman will have a feeling of calling.
The satisfaction that a married woman needs most turns out to be it (3).
2015-06-05 11:14 **Sanjiu Yangshengtang Editor: Qiu Ziting Traditional Chinese Medicine Health Preservation.
Why do women call men in particular?
Because the appearance of the man who coincides with the fiction realizes the woman's high degree of consistency with the inside and outside of the man's image, so the woman's heart is connected like a wire, and the current flows through in an instant - this feeling has nothing to do with fate, but is actually based on the woman's self-fiction, and the appearance of the man only satisfies and activates this fiction.
Women's penchant for fiction makes it possible for men to deceive women. For many men who have been in love for a long time, even if they are not self-taught, at least they understand the nature of women who love fiction or fantasy.
Why do women call men in particular?
Therefore, they observe words and colors, figure out women's inner fiction of men, cater to women's inner expectations, and try their best to make the role they play match the fictional image of male gods in women's hearts.
In this regard, some men belong to the actors with superb acting skills, in order to achieve their goals, they rein in their true colors, do their best to clean up their hands and feet and daily life or ** or uninhibited behavior, carefully groom their words and deeds, and try their best to cater to and try their best to stuff themselves into the mold of the perfect man that women make up - this is actually against the nature of men and makes men unhappy, but for men, if they endure it for a while, they can enjoy it for a lifetime.
Therefore, temporary discomfort and even pain, compared to long-term gains, is still quite cost-effective, men are willing to temporarily wronged themselves, which can explain why some men will be very different from the previous reason after getting a woman in their hands - now that the goal has been achieved, it is time for men to take out their suppressed hands and feet, words and deeds from the small mold that women have made up, and men have gotten rid of the shackles of the cage, stretched their muscles and bones, returned to their nature, and presented a different face to women.
In this regard, there are men who belong to the category of actors with superb acting skills.
In view of the poverty of women's imagination, the romantic scenes that men show to women originate from a number of romantic and cool versions of film and television works that have long been stored in men's brains, and these versions vary from person to person.
And women don't know that those men who perform romance particularly smoothly and naturally are basically masters of the love scene, for a very simple reason, they have already performed with different women, so they are so skilled.
Conclusion: Men and women are different, two people have been together for a long time, women will love more and more, and men will become more and more bored. After marriage, men cannot meet the needs of women in many ways, which is mainly due to the fact that men are not attentive enough to women, so what kind of men do women prefer? Everyone has read the above introduction, and you know it!