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Mondo Health Updated on 2024-03-01

When I was a teenager, I read "The Preface to the Pavilion of King Teng", which was a little jerky and difficult to understand, and I was attracted by the scenery in it.

When I grew up, I realized that there are not only landscapes in the article, but also many characters, and the truth of being a person gives people a lot of inspiration.

Select a few of them, interpret and analyze them in depth, and you can discover the trajectory of the fate of the ancients, and it is also a way for future generations to change their fate.

"When you are old and strong, would you rather move the heart of the white head? Poor and strong, do not fall into the ambition of the clouds": determination is the direction of destiny.

No matter how poor you are, you must also be determined and never let yourself languish.

If you don't succeed today, if you don't succeed tomorrow, then slow down, the coming days will be long, and you are most likely a late bloomer.

The Tang Dynasty was Yan Boyu, who served as a magistrate in several places, and was not famous.

When he was in Hongzhou, Nanchang, he organized a group of people to rebuild the Tengwang Pavilion, and invited literati and scholars to praise the Tengwang Pavilion together.

At the beginning, he planned to let his son-in-law show off his literary talents. Later, Wang Bo "inserted a pole" and wrote "The Preface to King Teng's Pavilion", which was amazing.

Although "it backfired", the gathering organized by Yan Boyu has left a name for the ages, and it has also made future generations remember him.

The ancients said: "If you have no habits, you can't make friends." ”

People have to have hobbies to be valuable. What is the "hobby", this is the ambition of life. Work is just a means to earn a living, and hobbies are the ultimate ideal.

Fate seems complicated, as long as you stick to your original ideals and maintain a high level of love, you will definitely come to prominence.

"Woohoo! Bad luck, bad fate": opportunity is the sublimation of fate.

Feng Tang of the Western Han Dynasty was appreciated by Emperor Wen of the Han Dynasty when he was young, and he also recommended talents to resist the Xiongnu.

However, Feng Tang has gone through three generations of emperors, and he still has not been reused.

In the period of Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty, someone recommended Feng Tang, but found that Feng Tang was very old and couldn't do anything.

How many people, when they are at their strongest, do not have the opportunity to show themselves; In the twilight of his life, he found that he was useful, but he could only sigh.

Life doesn't always go your way. If you want to change your fate, you have to find a way to create opportunities.

Wang Bo went to visit his father in Jiaozhi County and passed through Hongzhou. Therefore, there was an opportunity to write the "Preface to the Pavilion of King Teng". He didn't give in, regardless of what the people around him were looking at.

When he finished writing the article, everyone was amazed"This is a true genius, and he should be immortal!" ”

An article made his life rise from a trough to a high point.

In this life, there is always a chance to change your fate, the key depends on whether you can grasp it. If others don't give you a chance, you have to create it.

The poet Wang Guozhen said: "Strength is opportunity." ”

For positive people, the process of creating opportunities is to elevate the height of destiny, and never lament in the trough.

"Outstanding people, Xu Ru under Chen Fan's couch": nobles are the driving force of fate.

Xu Ruzi in the Eastern Han Dynasty, who lived in Nanchang, loved reading since he was a child and was talented, but he would rather be a farmer than an official.

It stands to reason that he lived in seclusion in the mountains and wilderness, and he was unknown all his life, and his fate was like that.

Chen Fan, who was too guarded, respected Xu Ruzi very much, and set up a couch at home. Whenever Xu Ruzi came, he took it out; When Xu Ruzi left, he hung up.

hanging couch", which made Xu Ruzi famous.

After Xu Ruzi passed away, in order to commemorate him, the descendants established Ruzi Road, Ruzi Pavilion, and Ruzi Park. The hidden stream in Fengcheng, where he lives, has also become a scenic spot.

Similarly, the literary scholar Sima Xiangru, because he married the talented girl Zhuo Wenjun, became a person that everyone talked about, and because of the recommendation of his fellow countryman Yang, he became a celebrity around the emperor.

If you want to change your fate, you have to have the good luck of "going out to meet nobles".

But what should you do to meet a noble person? There are two ways: one is to study hard and do more good deeds to form a certain fame and admiration; The second is to care more about others and convey warmth, thus creating various possibilities for returns.

As the saying goes: "Crossing others and crossing oneself, crossing oneself and crossing others." ”

People "cross each other", and your life will soon reach the other side of your dreams.

"There is a pen with a pen, and Mu Zongwei has a long wind": flexibility is the tuyere of fate.

Ban Chao, a very ordinary scholar, in order to make a living, he took refuge in his brother Ban Gu and helped the yamen copy documents.

For a time, he was appreciated by Emperor Ming of the Han Dynasty and appointed as the Lantai Lingshi, in charge of the recitals and documents.

For some reason, he was removed from office for a little negligence.

In the face of the difficulties of life, he did not give up, but threw his pen from Rong and started the journey of envoy to the Huns.

In the Xiongnu, he said the famous saying: "If you don't enter the tiger's den, you can get the tiger." ”

After returning from the Xiongnu, his fate changed completely, and he also became a military strategist and diplomat.

If he had copied and written all his life, I'm afraid his fate would have come to a halt.

Similar people, as well as Lu Xun, gave up medicine and followed literature. Pick up the pen, as **, wake up people, and criticize the dark society.

The ancients said: "If you are poor, you will think about change, and if you change, you will be accessible." ”

Actively change yourself and make yourself more adaptable to society, then you will have the opportunity to stand on the cusp of the storm.

We always say, "The times make heroes." ”

You don't want to be flexible, you don't follow the times, but you want to be a hero, you shouldn't be able to.

In a lifetime, you have to change so many times, surpassing yourself and the ordinary.

Yang Jiang said: "When I was young, I thought that not reading was not enough to understand life, but it was not until later that I realized that if I didn't understand life, I couldn't read books." The meaning of reading is probably to read with what you feel in life, and to live with what you get from reading. ”

When people reach a certain age, they read "Preface to King Teng's Pavilion" and find that the scenery of life and the helplessness of life are all in it.

Use inspirational stories to motivate yourself, and use the failures of the ancients to alert yourself, and you can always get some inspiration.

Fate is impermanent, no one knows what will happen in the next second, but you have to believe that the opportunity to change your fate can be created and seized; When you are positive, noble people will also appear.

In life, no one will be invincible; No one is grieving to the end, unless you keep waiting.

Don't complain, put a reading lamp, in your heart, fate is destined not to be bleak.

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