01 If you talk a lot, you'll feel like each other.
If you regularly chat with the opposite sex online, you'll be more likely to feel like each other.
Communicate through text and discuss any topic, happy or unhappy. You'll feel like he's the only person in the world to talk to you when you need him.
When you send a message and someone doesn't respond immediately, you feel disappointed, but when they do, you suddenly feel alive again.
Over time, you will develop the habit of talking to others. When I don't talk to anyone for a day, I feel empty in my heart, and I always feel like something is missing.
You feel that you need him a lot, you become emotionally dependent on him, and gradually you start to feel that you like him.
02 This kind of "like" is actually very unrealistic.
First, you have never met each other and do not understand each other's temperament.
How sincere can the so-called relationship between two strangers develop through written communication?
How many of us have been chatting with someone online for more than six months before we completely calmed down when we met face-to-face?
That's not bad. At least he's not**. Moreover, he was deceived and did not know what he was doing. It's pretty scary.
When you meet someone, you can see their facial expressions and hear their tone, but when you're chatting, you can only see the text.
The text itself has no emotion. Sentences made up of words have emotions because we bring our own emotions into the conversation.
So, to put it simply, any emotion you have when chatting online is a projection of your thoughts and is not representative of the other person's thoughts.
Moreover, in social situations, everyone tries to show their good side and cover up their shortcomings.
If you meet face-to-face, you can beautify yourself, but at least you can tell if the other person is lying by observing their facial expressions and body movements.
When chatting online, you lose the opportunity to see the other person's facial expressions, hear the tone of the other person's voice, and cannot tell whether the other person's words are true or false.
So it's easy to blindly believe everything he says and think that the other person is the perfect person. But if you think about it, is there really a perfect person in your life?
If you want to chat with the opposite sex online, you have to be awake at all times. Know that the content of such a conversation is glorified and illusory.
03 I don't know if the other party is Neptune.
After all, it only takes a few seconds to send a text message. How do you know if the other person is chatting with you when they're not chatting with someone else?
Some girls are young and naïve. It's easy for them to fall in love with the person they're chatting with, and sometimes even call each other "boyfriend" or "girlfriend" directly online.
Two people may be in a distant city, only see each other once or twice a month, and don't know what each other does in their free time.
As a result, it is common to see a wide variety of events on the web. After dating for a year, I found out that my boyfriend was Neptune, and after dating for two years, I found out that he was **....
That's the downside of chatting. It is impossible to judge the true situation of the other party.
Even if lovers have known each other well in the past, a long-distance relationship can make the relationship uncertain and unsustainable if one of the partners doesn't see it that way.
I'm sure many people have read the story of the 30-second power outage in the library. When there is no one around, or even someone around you, you can focus some of your thoughts on others.
Maybe you think you're doing a one-on-one two-way chat, but from their point of view, you're just a fish in a pond.
After all, sincerity can be conveyed at the touch of a finger, so even an idiot can understand that such a low cost and high return is not a loss.