In this complex social world, college students have set off a blind date revolution, using ridiculous language to confront parents' worries and social expectations.
Adolescence is a wonderful time, like a "deer crashing" mood, full of curiosity and anticipation of the opposite sex. However, parents and teachers are always serious about puppy love, and they do not allow such a situation to exist. In this context, college students have entered the stage of blind dates, and in the hustle and bustle of this "marriage market", they are passing through people with various personalities and appearances, looking for the special one who belongs to them.
At the university level, students meet people from all over the world, and in the face of various personalities and external conditions, they begin to examine their own emotional outlook. Compared with the ancient "parents' orders, matchmakers' words", modern college students pay more attention to the matching of personality and willingness. The change in the concept of marriage has become a unique symbol of this generation, who advocate "you love me" and pursue the compatibility of the three views and tempers of both parties.
However, parents do not always see the same as college students. In their opinion, a graduate student and a civil servant are such enviable conditions. However, college students' requirements for blind dates often go beyond these superficial halos. Appearance has become a "hard injury", even if the other party has a high degree and a good job, if the appearance is not up to par, it is still prohibitive.
Parents often can't help but feel anxious about their children when they are single, trying to find a "good person" for them through blind dates. However, college students have different attitudes towards blind dates. Some are not sensitive, some "go through the motions", and for unfriendly people, they will even directly rectify the blind date market, emphasizing that "liking girls can't just look at her appearance, but also look at their own appearance".
The blind date market has become a place full of uncertainties, with parents constantly introducing blind dates, while college students often find "unknowns" in it. In the process of blind date, some people are blunt and directly labeled as "20,000 yuan for the bride price", which is ridiculous. Through this blind date experience, college students gradually realized that "words are not speculative and more than half a sentence", and the difference in three views and thinking can be vividly reflected in the chat.
What is particularly striking is that university students adopt a distinct attitude when it comes to blind dates. They not only dare to express their opinions, but also dare to respond to each other's suspicions in the face of knowing that it is a blind date. Such witty answers not only show the sense of humor of college students, but also show their prudence and rationality in the marriage market.
However, social anxiety about college students' marriage still exists. When parents come home from vacation, parents not only mobilize contacts to introduce blind dates, but also often expect their children to have personal care as soon as possible with the mentality of "the emperor is not in a hurry, and the eunuchs are in a hurry". This mentality makes blind dates an inevitable social phenomenon, and college students may not want to be swayed by this mentality.
University students are faced with more choices in society, and they may choose to continue their studies or devote themselves to work. For feelings, they become more critical.