As the saying goes: "If the sky does not cross people, people need to cross themselves." ”
And he said, "If the heavens cross a man, he has already crossed himself." ”
It is not difficult to find that when a person does not complain and starts positively, God will also be kind.
Anyone's life is not all gray on sunny days and mud on rainy days. Walking into the city, stepping on the hard ground, and the pain of stumbling.
It seems impossible to completely get rid of the difficulties of life, and the really beautiful thing is the moment when you break out of the cocoon and become a butterfly.
When you go through the most bitter period of time, and then go forward, the pain after that is nothing, but you have a breeze and not irritable feeling.
A life that is too smooth will not be productive.
I have read such a sentence: "Reading is not bitter, not reading is bitter." ”
It is logical that after doing all the things in life, if you don't feel pain, don't do it, and avoid it repeatedly, you will be miserable.
As psychologist Rogers said, "When you don't really become yourself, then no matter what your external conditions are, you will still feel miserable, confused, and always feel that there is something seriously lacking in life." ”Hundreds of years ago, there was a woman named Marie Antoinette who married at the age of sixteen, and her husband was Louis XVI.
After her newlywed, she began to live a life of luxury, and freely participated in various parties, which fascinated countless men.
Whether it is appearance or power, it makes men fall for themselves.
A small palace, seven or eight houses, will be decorated with two million niffels, and the luxury is extreme.
In order to show herself, she constantly buys jewelry, clothing, and also participates in gambling.
If you owe gambling debts, it doesn't matter, just sell your jewelry.
When the French Revolution began, she became a scapegoat for the class struggle by blaming her for her extravagant life for the fall of the dynasty.
In history, there are many similar characters, who went well in the first half of their lives, but then collapsed with a bang. Yang Guifei and Zhao Feiyan are all like this.
Zeng Shiqiang, a management guru, said: "When things are too smooth, you should be extra careful." ”It's always going well, which is very abnormal - there must be a demon when things go wrong.
If you don't wake up in time and take precautions, disaster will follow. Life has been going well for a long time, which means that there will be just as much pain, and it will come suddenly.
The seedlings in the greenhouse, once they leave the greenhouse, wilt. This is the truth that prosperity must decline.
Life is hard, get through it and win.
Goethe once said, "Savor everything that pain has left behind." When the suffering passes, it becomes sweet. ”Many accomplished people have experienced the process of "bottoming out", or have been in pain all their lives, but they can enjoy themselves and correct their mentality.
The greatest light in life is not to meet the scorching sun of summer, but to encounter a little glimmer of light in the darkness; After experiencing darkness, a ray of sunshine in the morning was ushered in.
He who calculates you is the one who comes to cross you.
Before we were calculated, we were kind to everyone and seemed naïve. It's like a child, who looks at everyone and smiles without defense.
Until one day, we were calculated by relatives and friends, and bullied by our colleagues, that we found that we needed to readjust our relationships. For girlfriends, there will also be fortifications, and for iron buddies, they will also refuse.
The moment you are calculated, you have a kind of beauty of "seeing the sun through the clouds". It turned out that I really saw the relationship clearly.
The things that make you helpless are the things that force you to learn.
If you can't figure out one thing, it means that your ability is insufficient. You either give up or force yourself to learn.
If people are not afraid of not studying, they are afraid that they will not be able to study in society. is a person who is only eight buckets, and when he comes to society, he will still feel confused, after all, he will eventually feel shallow on paper, and he will never know that he has to bow to it.
People are not afraid of ignorance, but when they are afraid of ignorance, they do not admit that they are ignorant. If you have experienced the whipping of things, you will be able to understand it, and you will know what you know, and you will not know what you don't know.
It's a very unfriendly environment that forces you to adapt to it.
In 1830, the great writer Pushkin was ready to marry his fiancée, but his family objected. His literary path did not go smoothly either.
The house leak happened to rain overnight", he wanted to go to his hometown to relax, but he encountered the epidemic and was forbidden to go out.
What can you do after months in the village? He simply calmed down and wrote several books and many poems. The explosion of works made him famous.
The next year, he married his beloved, and his life began to rise.
Gorky was amazed at him and said: "Pushkin is to literature what Leonardo da Vinci is to European art." ”
We will always encounter such and such people and things, but whatever makes us miserable is forcing ourselves to do something, change something, and achieve something. This is the true meaning of "crossing".
In fact, suffering is part of the achievement.
Rabindranath Tagore wrote: "Only through hellish trials can the power to create heaven be refined." ”If you taste it carefully, the world is hell.
From a personal point of view, one thought is a Buddha and one thought is a demon, it all depends on your state of mind.
When you look at the problem with a positive attitude, you will find that it doesn't matter if you fall into the abyss.
When you have a light inside you, and when the night comes, you will find that the light plays the greatest role.
Take the painful experience as a way to go, and you will be very calm. If you don't experience pain for the rest of your life, that's a pity.
Why does a lot of flowing water deliberately come to the cliff, because only by jumping off the cliff can it become a beautiful waterfall and a flat valley, which cannot be done.
Life is like flowing water, if you want to have waves, you have to collide with stones, you have to cross cliffs.
Writer Lin Qingxuan said: "The key is enlightenment, and the happiness and pain of life are all enlightenment." ”
There is no absolute smooth sailing in life, and you always have to face the process of going against the current.
If God wants to cross a person, he will test him with painful things to see if he has the courage and whether he can bear it.
The people who are really worthy of "crossing" are those who can move forward calmly in the face of adversity.
One day, life kisses me with pain, but I repay it with a song.