I've seen such a sentence"Wisdom is not the contemplation of death, but the contemplation of life." ”
It's not terrible to be smart, it's terrible to be smart and mistake Qingqing's life.
Really smart people, just like Guiguzi said"The way of the saint is hidden and hidden. ”
People are mixed in society, socializing, starting a business, making money, etc., and it is better to be brutal than skillful.
Hiding things, calming down, and saving your life is the most self-discipline you should have.
Hide things, don't talk to people.
As the saying goes: "Nine or eight times out of ten things are unsatisfactory in life, there are no two or three people who can talk to others." ”When a person shakes off his own things, he always expects someone to resonate, even if he can complain a few words together, he is very happy.
It's a pity that there are always people who "find fun" with your affairs and invisibly sprinkle a handful of salt on your wounds.
People's joys and sorrows are different, and it is better to hide them and relieve themselves.
In the twenties of the last century, the painter Xu Beihong was actively looking for a breakthrough in his career, and also observed many foreigners' works.
He unabashedly presents the results of his appreciation of foreign works.
Of French modernist paintings, he said: "There is dirt in dung. ”
He also said: "Since the Great War, the psychology of Europe has changed, the dignity of art has been eroded, and the vulgar fashion has become fashionable. ”
It was nothing to express their opinions, but Xu Zhimo launched an attack on Xu Beihong's remarks, thinking that Xu Beihong's comments were too biased.
Xu Zhimo said: "The outpouring of fresh spirit; The splendor of noble life. ”
No matter how old you are, things will happen, but the most terrible thing is - eventful.
When dealing with people, you often have to have the attitude of "more things are better than less", although you are a little colder, but your realm is better, at least you will not be bothered by other people's fingers.
Hide your own things, form your own opinions from the beginning, and insist on doing things well. When things come to an end, people who appreciate you will naturally come.
Halfway through your work, you chatter and wish someone would give you advice, and your things will be ruined.
If you don't do a good job and give up halfway, there will be many people who will ridicule you, and your face will be lost, and it will be difficult to raise your head and be a person in the future.
Everything you shake off is just a cocoon. Less talk and more action is the attitude of smart people.
Hold your breath and get through it slowly.
What people are most afraid of is not being angry, but being "angry".People have summed up a truth: superior people have the ability but no temper; Inferior people, who have no ability and temper.
Do you still need a temper? The answer is obvious.
No matter how you live, it will not go well, either outsiders will ridicule and envy you, or you will be angry after comparing others.
Therefore, you have to get angry and give up your temper at the same time. With a fairly good mood, do things slowly, survive the trough of life, and bear the pressure of life.
Robert Henry was a painter and a leading exponent of the "Dustbin School".
When it comes to garbage bins, no one should have a good impression. Therefore, the painter has also been ridiculed many times, and some people say that he deliberately creates loneliness and creates morbid beauty.
The painter didn't care about people's evaluations, and also cultivated a famous **Edward Hopper.
The painter said: "My goal in painting is to record the most tangible impressions of nature. ”In the end, the painter walked out of his own way and was recognized by future generations.
It is inevitable that you will be criticized or looked down upon, and if you repeatedly explain to others or argue with others, it will only make people think that you are frivolous and further hurt by others.
Calm down, if you go far away and surpass others by a large margin, you will naturally be admired.
A good life is never about being angry, but about sharpening a sword for ten years, or even doing one thing for a lifetime. After sinking for a long time, the depth is enough, the speed of the ascent is faster, and the elasticity of the jump is enough.
Save your life, and the future will be long.
There was a rooster who took the hen and chicks to the wild in search of food.
Suddenly, the chick found a piece of treasure jade and quickly picked it up.
The rooster said to Baoyu, "If I get you, a lot of people will come and fight." When the time comes, not only will I lose Baoyu, but my life will also be in danger. It's better for you to become a wheat.
The chick listened and was ashamed to lose Baoyu.
For chickens, getting Baoyu will not change their fate, but will make the greedy people start the arrest operation. The rooster sees through this.
As Aesop's Fables say, "A wise man is willing to give up his money in order to save his life." ”There is nothing in the world more precious than life.
When you are dying of hunger alone, the gold in your hand is not as good as a bowl of white rice.
If the money is gone, you can earn it back, but if you lose your life, you won't have the opportunity to make money. If life is still there, but the body collapses, then you can't support yourself at all, and your life has no quality, maybe life is worse than death.
Once upon a time, there was a leader named the Great King's Father, who sent cattle, sheep, and leather to the enemy when the enemy attacked, hoping for reconciliation.
The enemy doesn't want anything, just land. So the king's father and his people moved to Qishan and reopened the wasteland for farming.
Later, King Wen of Zhou, the grandson of King Wen, and the great-grandson King Wu of Zhou, established the Western Zhou Dynasty.
It took a hundred years to not only cultivate people, but also achieve family business, and even dominate the world. Why do you want to fight to the death because of the money you have now?Ignorant people are controlled by external things, and thus have greed; Smart people control external objects, so they have the realm of gain and loss, and it is best to have a surprise of great sacrifice.
Wang Guozhen said: "Life is a trek, but also a journey; It's waiting, it's also reunion; It is an adventure and a treasure hunt; It's tears, it's song. ”Everyone wants to be lucky, make a lot of money, and reject bad luck.
In fact, bad luck is also a part of life, and the trough is a part of life. It's a blessing or a curse, and it's a disaster that can't be avoided. It's better to move forward quietly and take the initiative to meet the next time.
Hide things, and things will go smoothly.
Calm down, life will be quieter.
Keep your life, and your life will be deep and long.
Be a wise man, foolish, and not foolish; Simple, not simple.