After a busy day, in the evening, it was quiet.
A good life also seems to start when it gets dark. Square dancing, ballroom dancing, supper, watching TV. Everything is colorful.
However, the ancients said"If you don't do it when it's dark, there will be no disaster at home." ”
There is also a frightening sentence left in the "Palm Record": "The moon is dark and kills the night, and the wind is high and the sky is on fire." "When the night came, the people who killed and set the fire also came out, and when the wind came, the possibility of fire was higher.
Nowadays, we live in an era of peace, but we must have the thinking of "planning for a rainy day".
When we reach the age of 60, we should adjust our living habits according to our age, family, and physical changes, so that we can spend the night safely.
Don't light the fire in the furnace.
When people are old, they are often afraid of the cold, so they make the fire very strong, but the hidden dangers are also left.
Especially in winter, in order to keep warm, the elderly have a fire all day long, coal stoves, electric stoves, air conditioners, and electric blankets.
Incidents of gas poisoning by the elderly have happened from time to time. Some electric heating equipment has been used for a long time, and there are also ** things.
At night, the elderly should find the best and safe way to heat their homes according to the actual situation.
For example, in the north, there are facilities to use central heating as much as possible, so don't be reluctant to pay for heating;In the south, thicker quilts can be used, air conditioning can be turned on, and coal stoves can be used sparingly.
If you have to use a coal stove, pay attention to ventilation, check the surroundings of the room, and then go to bed. Old husbands and wives, pay attention to reminding each other, don't miss anything.
Don't go alone at night.
At the end of the Eastern Han Dynasty, Cao Cao became the northern governor of Luoyang.
At that time, the world was in turmoil, and people's lives were very unsafe. Cao Cao ordered that the curfew system should be strictly enforced, and anyone who came out to hang out at night would be served with sticks.
There is a middle-aged and elderly person named Jian Tu, who thinks that he is **, and there are several ** at home, so he has no fear, gets drunk, and then goes out for a ride.
When the official saw the picture, he immediately moved the stick.
It can be seen that traveling at night is really not a good thing. There are neon lights in the night, which will also cover all kinds of dirt, which is very intimidating.
When people are old, they are slightly unfit in their legs and feet, and they can't see the road clearly, so they can easily fall.
The elderly have to go out, they must have more companions, and they have to bring their mobile phones. Avoid situations where a few people get separated, and don't take the off-the-beaten-path route. If you feel that there is danger, you should not go there, and it is better to believe that there is something than to believe that there is none.When you go out to do good deeds, you will go home in time; If it's a party, don't get drunk. Keep your head clear, go home in time, and then tell the people in the party that they are safe.
In the chaos of the local area, don't go out. When the situation changes, it's not too late to go out for a walk.
The love of husband and wife, don't quarrel.
Looking at two pieces of information, we can understand why we can't quarrel at night.
According to the "News Hotspot Agency" platform, Ms. Zhao and her husband in Xiaoshan District, Hangzhou quarreled, and in excitement, her husband threw more than 10,000 yuan off the twentieth floor.
After a while, the husband and wife were distressed about the money, but it was difficult to find it everywhere.
As a last resort, they turned to the police. In the end, more than half of the money was recovered, but thousands of yuan were lost.
On Dahe.com", a husband and wife on Jianye Road in Zhengzhou quarreled in the middle of the night, causing their wives to run away from home.
The wife said that she was beaten by her husband and could not be wronged. I decided to go back to my parents' house right away.
After the patrolling police found out about the situation, they repeatedly persuaded the couple to resolve the conflict.
In the middle of the night, how can there be a car to "go back to my parents' house", it is scary to think about. If the wife meets the bad guy, the husband will have to feel guilty for the rest of his life.
Young people, a little impulsive, can be understood, but the old people are also so impulsive, quarreling with their wives at every turn, this is a night that turns a good night into a demon.
If the old man goes out angrily at night, it must not be a good thing.In these days, although the old man also lives in the city, there are also invisible corners of the city that hide evils.
Besides, the old man is always quarrelling, and the children are not at ease, and they don't know how to settle the old man.
A good day is a house of two people, three meals and four seasons, and it is never used to quarrel. At night, rest well, and if there is a conflict, don't leave an overnight feud.
** for children, don't be too late.
Have the old people ever thought about how it would feel when their children received ** from their parents in the middle of the night?
Children are middle-aged, they have to take care of a small family, they have to go to work, and they have to take care of their parents. If it is in the middle of the night, the ** rings, I will definitely think that there is an emergency.
The urgency of the unit makes the middle-aged people miserable enough, and if the elderly are in an emergency, it is even more bitter.
From the point of view of common sense, the ** in the middle of the night means that the elderly suddenly fell ill, encountered an accident, and what the family suffered. This is something that middle-aged people can think of.
If there is no special situation, the elderly want to contact their children, they should tell their children through WeChat or text messages before ten o'clock that they are fine.
To greet and care about children, we should pay attention to ways and means, try not to disturb the normal life of our children, and take care of our children's emotions.
Or, the elderly and their children have an agreement that at a certain time, they can contact each other and avoid busy work, as well as the education time of their grandchildren.
Of course, on the other hand, it is best not to receive the ** of the children in the middle of the night, which will be very worrying.
In the sketch "Not Bad Money", Xiao Shenyang said a few lines: "A person's life can be short, sometimes I want to be the same as sleeping, my eyes are closed, I am open, and a day has passed; As soon as you close your eyes and don't open them, this life is over. ”After the age of sixty, develop a healthy lifestyle and don't think of the night as day, and don't think of the day as the night.
As normal, rest with your eyes closed and see the world with your eyes open. Every day is very precious, and every dark night is to welcome the dawn.
No one knows which one will come first, tomorrow or the unexpected, but we must be ready to meet tomorrow.
When the elderly are safe, the children are relieved, the family will have fewer disasters, and happiness will naturally increase.