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Have you noticed that all those girls who are mixed with wind and water and are exquisite on all sides are very good at pretending to be pigs and eating tigers, especially after I experienced a three-year trough period, I appreciate this type of girl even more, and I know that such girls are amazing, whether in their careers or families, they can do it with ease, can bend and stretch and connect freely.
Of course, girls who are good at pretending to be pigs and eating tigers, they disguise themselves not to harm others, but to protect themselves.
If you want to be like that, let's see if you have these qualities:
01.I have a copy of "Thick Black Studies" in my heart.
Such a girl, she knows that the rivers and lakes are sinister, and she will only harm herself, and if she continues to behave, she won't even have to eat sugar, instead of playing "Infernal Affairs", it is better to cultivate "thick black learning", and only by having a "thick" face and a "black" heart can she play with life.
The "thick black" here is not the thick black that will do whatever it takes to achieve the goal, let alone the thick black of the cunning and cunning, but emphasizes an inner wisdom in the world.
After all, when people are in the rivers and lakes, they still have to be thick-skinned and darker in their hearts, so that they can keep their positions.
A moderate amount of thick black can not only protect yourself, but also be able to get things done.
A thick face and a black heart are the indispensable philosophy of a girl who pretends to be a pig and eats a tiger, and it is also the only rule that leads to success.
02.will hide their "cleverness".
She believes in hiding her clumsiness, knows how to hide her "cleverness", restrains her light, and will not expose her true strength to others.
She will generously expose her shortcomings, but she will hide her strengths, after all, the weak can always get more sympathy and attention, even if they are despised by others, it doesn't matter, why bother to expose all their intelligence, and may be jealous.
I know everything in my heart, but I look cute, or I am obviously a person with outstanding achievements, but I am not publicized, not embarrassed, and approachable, so that I can be more respected and accepted.
03.Pay attention to self-needs.
It is easy for a girl who pretends to be a pig and eats a tiger to give others the impression that she is simple, heartless, arrogant, will not care about herself, has a strong affinity, and is easy to get along with others.
The purpose of them doing this is nothing more than that they are not willing to worry about others and are too lazy to care, not that they have not seen through each other's malice, but they just don't want to tear their faces and make everyone unhappy.
In interpersonal communication, she is very good at calculating the cost, for example, instead of going toe-to-toe with others, the fish will die and the net will be broken, the price to be paid is relatively large, and she can't get any benefits from it, so why make herself turn her face with others, and attract a group of people to watch jokes, so it's not necessary.
So such a girl, she is not what everyone sees, easy to bully, in fact, they are saving their energy on how to do what they want to do, so they are too lazy to waste time on meaningless people.
04.Put down your face and know how to show weakness.
Girls who know how to pretend to be a pig and eat a tiger may temporarily wronged themselves to be a clown for the sake of long-term plans, and even don't mind grandstanding.
They don't mind saying nice things to you in order to get a benefit from you, anyway, they don't suffer a loss, she always has a way to make you fall unconsciously.
Everyone has their own survival skills, grandstanding is a survival skill, so knowing how to show weakness and putting down to cater to each other is also a survival skill.
05.Write at the end:
There is a saying: high-end hunters often appear as prey.
Girls who know how to pretend to be pigs and eat tigers, they may look harmless to humans and animals, and they seem to be easily deceived, but in fact they all have a unique set of strategies, often silently controlling the situation behind their backs.
Not only are they good at hiding their true intentions, but they often use this strategy to achieve their goals, always choosing to play dumb in order to maintain a harmonious atmosphere, but behind this is actually their wisdom and strategy.
I used to be very disdainful of this type of girl, but after going through so much, I really appreciate this type of girl.
After all, the rivers and lakes are sinister, and all the physical skills are just a way to survive better, and also to avoid unnecessary trouble.
I'm Ah, I'm practicing a small business, and I firmly believe in the power of perseverance.